i made a thread on the forum but was afraid no one would see...i dont mean to offend anyone by asking a question that has nothing to do with illness..but i really dont have any friends and hoping maybe someone on here will know how to help me...
hello, i have no idea where to ask this question that may seem odd and crazy and has nothing to do with illness other than maybe my anxiety phobias and paranoia makeing me want to find out...
but if anyone knew my inlaws i think they would understand...they come from small town and have told lies on each other and other people...theyve accused others of taking and selling drugs....child neglect...stealing...{which they have stolen from me and hubby and kids} they accused each other of sleeping around alot and of cheathing on spouses etc. etc. etc. threaten to beat peopole up etc.very serious things and they do seem to know the people high up to cover up their tracks and they get by with it...
im worried because two of hubby sister in particular have made remarks of "causing trouble for peopole they didint like" one said she knew the people who ran the small town the government agencies etc. and that person had told her she would look up anyones info {im guessing where they work, how much they make etc} and if anyone caused her trouble that she would make sure that they "paid for it" i took it as she would report false information to irs or someone getting federal help or something...or get where thye work and try to fire them by makeing a false complaint..
finally herers my question....can i get a legal form made up stating pretty much what i said above because my inlaws are very angry at my hubby for looking for biological family member...im terrified they will call his job try to get him fired...and worse im afraid that they will find out where my kids work and stuff and make false reports on them....two of kids thinking of joining military and anyone could call and make a horrible false report on someone...yes it would be investigated and be clear but all the anxiety and humiliation...i think id have a nervous breakdown...
im worried cause they keep asking personal questions about kids..where they work..what school...etc...things theve never been interested in asking before...and i know how low down and dirty they are...
id just llike to have something in writing so that if they did do anything dirty that id have the paper and it could be looked into if it were them...and by having it already it would show that i wasnt just making up at last minute that i thought they would try to do something to us...
theve told horrible destrctive lies on alot of people us included in the past...but i dotn want my hubby job in jepordy or my kids job or military if they join..that is serious...
so im sorry if this is wrong place to ask..but hoping someone has some legal back ground and can understand what im tryigng to ask......its so unfair that jsut because they know the "higher ups-important people" in the town that they can get personal info and try to destroy someones life and get away with it....
hello, i have no idea where to ask this question that may seem odd and crazy and has nothing to do with illness other than maybe my anxiety phobias and paranoia makeing me want to find out...
but if anyone knew my inlaws i think they would understand...they come from small town and have told lies on each other and other people...theyve accused others of taking and selling drugs....child neglect...stealing...{which they have stolen from me and hubby and kids} they accused each other of sleeping around alot and of cheathing on spouses etc. etc. etc. threaten to beat peopole up etc.very serious things and they do seem to know the people high up to cover up their tracks and they get by with it...
im worried because two of hubby sister in particular have made remarks of "causing trouble for peopole they didint like" one said she knew the people who ran the small town the government agencies etc. and that person had told her she would look up anyones info {im guessing where they work, how much they make etc} and if anyone caused her trouble that she would make sure that they "paid for it" i took it as she would report false information to irs or someone getting federal help or something...or get where thye work and try to fire them by makeing a false complaint..
finally herers my question....can i get a legal form made up stating pretty much what i said above because my inlaws are very angry at my hubby for looking for biological family member...im terrified they will call his job try to get him fired...and worse im afraid that they will find out where my kids work and stuff and make false reports on them....two of kids thinking of joining military and anyone could call and make a horrible false report on someone...yes it would be investigated and be clear but all the anxiety and humiliation...i think id have a nervous breakdown...
im worried cause they keep asking personal questions about kids..where they work..what school...etc...things theve never been interested in asking before...and i know how low down and dirty they are...
id just llike to have something in writing so that if they did do anything dirty that id have the paper and it could be looked into if it were them...and by having it already it would show that i wasnt just making up at last minute that i thought they would try to do something to us...
theve told horrible destrctive lies on alot of people us included in the past...but i dotn want my hubby job in jepordy or my kids job or military if they join..that is serious...
so im sorry if this is wrong place to ask..but hoping someone has some legal back ground and can understand what im tryigng to ask......its so unfair that jsut because they know the "higher ups-important people" in the town that they can get personal info and try to destroy someones life and get away with it....