And I want Victoria to come organize my life!!!
I could come & organize many people's lives, but unless all those people aquire the same skills that I have aquired, the minute I leave your life, you would fall back into the same state of disorganisation LOL.
Learning to be organised does not happen overnight. It takes years of
falling over in a heap &
learning by mistakes.
It's taking relearning old habits. On my Blog
Clearing out the Trash (towards the end), you will find some words of advice. I'll add to them here.......
Learning how to organize your life, is about learning to
let go.
Be it habits or thought patterns. It's about living in the moment. Only having material possessions which you really & truly
need.
It's also about
less is more. Learning to live a more
simple life, so that clutter doesn't accumulate.
Clutter makes work.
It's also about following a few simple rules. And the rules are:
1. Stop living your life by other people's rules.
2. Stop aquiring possessions based on other people's possesssions.
3. Stop trying to please other people - look to what YOU need to live a satisfying life.
Instead of saying I wish I had "xyz". Look at "xyz" very closely & decide whether
you need it or
you'd like it.
Do you need a home filled with ornaments (which require dusting & polishing)? Do you use all those kitchen utensils? Or did you buy them on a whim or at a sale. Something is not a bargain, if you don't use it.
If you don't use a "bargain", it is a waste of time, money & clutters your life - creating more work & energy loss.
How much unecessary material possessions can you dispose of? (Preferably to a charity or charity shop).
You need to simplify everything in your life (to live a simple, easy, organised life).
You need to learn new habits. eg Stop buying the latest gadget, latest fashion, latest sale item. If you are a shopaholic, then you are wasting your time & money doing something unecessary.
"Organising your life" is about doing the necessary (not the uneccesary).
And secondly, don't take something because it's free (unless you can use it). If you can't use it regularly, leave the free item for someone who really needs it.
If you can do this, then you are halfway towards "being organized".