However, if it were true, then adding another viral infection should be continuing the same immune response (producing certain cytokines, depleting TRP in cells, etc), and so shouldn't affect overall symptoms strongly, which I've observed that it does. A cold, or viral meningitis, strongly increased my ME symptoms.
That does not always have to be the case, as different infections can elicit different immune responses.
And also, the same pathogen as it infects different people can infect different organs, and thus lead to different symptoms and different diseases.
One relative of mine caught the same coxsackievirus B4 infection which appeared to trigger my ME/CFS. I developed ME/CFS after this virus caused a brain infection. Whereas this relative later went on to develop type 1 diabetes, which is linked to CVB4 infection of the pancreas.
Several other friends and family who caught my virus were hit by viral myocarditis, which is where a virus infects the heart muscle.
So the organs infected may dictate which disease ensues.
If the symptoms were from the immune response to a chronic viral infection, I'd expect more fluctuations in severity, particularly when taking some drugs or foods that affect the immune response.
The immune response has many different departments, and an immunosuppressive drug may target one department — but that may not be the right area to reduce ME/CFS symptoms. Obviously the potently immunosuppressive corticosteroid drugs are targeting the right immune areas, as corticosteroids can allow ME/CFS patients to push themselves well beyond their normal exertional envelope, but not experience PEM.
While we are talking about corticosteroids, these may indirectly provide proof of a viral role in ME/CFS: corticosteroids work great for ME/CFS in the short term if you take them for one or two days in order to avoid PEM. But tellingly, ME/CFS patients who try long term corticosteroids (for weeks or months) usually become much worse.
How can corticosteroids help so much in the short term, but cause damage in the long term? Well, a simple answer may be that in the long term, they allow underlying viral infections to proliferate, thus making ME/CFS worse.
To me that fits the hypothesis of chronic viruses worsening ME symptoms through elevated immune activation, or possibly through altered cell function.
No doubt additional infections can worsen some ME/CFS symptoms. I have a recurrent urinary tract infection, and each time this infection flares up, I get a lot more fatigue. My UTI is not the basis of my ME/CFS (because I had it before my ME/CFS was virally triggered), but it does increase the fatigue.
One idea that occurred to me is similar to yours: that the ME/CFS triggering infection could both over-sensitize the immune response (perhaps by infecting critical organs of the body involved in immunity) AND as an ongoing low-level infection, might also constitute the main target of the over-sensitized immune response.