@Gondwanaland
Please see
here for more info regarding BH4, GCH1, etc
Did he try Mucuna Pruriens Raw Powder or an extract of Mucuna? What i meant to say is that he should supplement with Mucuna and 5-HTP if he has the GCH1 mutation and/or impaired BH4 synthesis. I also do not understand why he felt awful with Metafolin. Could you post his genetic genie report or send it over as a message?
Also recall that your SNPs (both yours and your husband's) suggested that you could be low in Choline. Again, i do not understand why Choline makes him sleepy (actually Taurine could be doing that). It should be the other way around! Something else is going on here...
To summarize, here is what i would do as an essential list :
Yes Resveratrol is indeed estrogenic. The only best way to lower E2 is to lose fat from his waist.
-Try avoiding all sources of Phenylalanine
-Try not eating too much meat
-Avoid too much sugar
-Supplement with 1 gram of Taurine per day
-Take Choline 350 - 500 mg per day
-Make sure you aren't/ he is not Gluten Intolerant
....It's a long essential list, i know