In terms of being 'uncaring', and blaming individuals, and scapegoating, etc, something I've been meaning to say here for some time is that, ultimately, we should be blaming ideas rather than people. It seems to me that mistakes, bad ideas, "pickled into a rigid dogma, a code", lie at the root of 'conspiracies' and 'uncaring' behaviour - the supposed 'conspirators' often don't realise what errors they share, perhaps? So it could be useful to try to take the emotion out of some of these questions, in order to resolve them. Hard to do, and I have been as guilty of this myself as anyone else, and probably will be again. And that's not to say that emotion isn't important, just a suggestion on how to heal wounds.
In terms of "ME/CFS", there are lots of bad ideas along the road to where we are now, we can go back to Freud as a start, I think, and say it turns out it's a bad idea to try to probe into someone else's mind and work out what's going on. It's very hard to excuse the people responsible for such continued appallingly bad ideas as those responsible for our situation; it's incredibly hard to excuse the way people have failed to listen to what we have been trying to say for decades. And maybe 'evil' and 'having bad ideas' are the same thing? But regardless, it's the bad ideas we should concentrate on identifying and rooting out. Some of these bad ideas are believed very widely indeed, and one wouldn't want to condemn everyone for failing to spot the flaws - it's just human weakness.
I think the exit poll result is not so terrible, and I doubt it will be accurate anyway. Lib Dem squeeze is hugely disappointing if it's true, but the share of the vote will be significant too. What 'the people' want is a hung parliament, I think, that's been obvious for some time: we want our politicians to learn to work together to solve their problems. So I think any hung parliament is a good thing...but we'll have to see how it pans out, there's a long way to go - and even after all the results are in it'll be a while before we know what it all means.