So staying in my limit keeps me fitter and is a better quality of life!
I agree. It's also tricky as sometimes it's almost impossible to figure out that limit. There's often a misunderstanding that once you reach a certain level of activity, it does not necessarily mean you can go to the next level of activity as compared to other health conditions.
I read of one patient who was bedbound, not with mecfs, who would raise one arm at a time to write the letters of the alphabet in the air. When she could. She said it made her feel better and part of the benefit may have been distraction, but it did not mean with her health condition, she would be able to increase her activity and someday miraculously jump out of bed.
What I do not feel comfortable with is the notion that you just have to push yourself which may, however unintentionally, convey laziness. Everyone at one time or another has taken the path of least resistance, it's a human trait but not necessarily one found only in patients. But maybe it's easier to attribute these motives to a patient who has an i
nvisible illness.
For example, for a while I had warm water physical therapy and it did seem to make me feel better. But there were more times than not I wasn't able to make it. So how much of this was a reflection of WWT vs. I was feeling better in the first place?
.I'm not sure if that this makes complete sense and it may look like Im contradicting myself. That may be because I'm having difficulty expressing this. I also may be venting.
Maybe others can explain this better.