I'm very sorry to read that
@SlamDancin.
I think the range of specific symptoms we experience when stable and during a crash are very broad. According to this model, many of these symptoms would be downstream to events in the micro-circulation. From a high-level view it may relate to worsened tissue hypoxia.
Let's say a classic PEM episode is induced by walking too far or climbing stairs. This might produce impaired micro-circulation performance in a couple of ways, due to the required higher cardiac output. There might be an accumulation of micro-clots in the capillaries; as well as worsening deformability of red cells. Both could act to reduce the amount of O2 delivered to tissues. The micro-clots may be forced to the periphery of the vessel as RBCs try and squeeze through. This would make a barrier to O2 diffusion (and maybe increase endothelial inflammation).
A "clogged" micro-circulation might lead to compensatory attempts via heart rate and blood pressure changes.
From
Effects of Post-Exertional Malaise on Markers of Arterial Stiffness in Individuals with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome —
ME/CFS patients may experience altered vascular responses following aerobic exercise, contrary to what is seen in healthy populations. This is thought to be a result of the increased presence of oxidative stress and low-grade vascular inflammation, which may be exacerbated by exercise and contribute to the onset of PEM
I'm only considering the pseudo-macroscopic view above — what might be happening to cells. What's happening within cells, in terms of the altered metabolic pathways is another level to consider.
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So why hasn't this been discovered before, e.g. post-mortem studies on ME patients? The capillary endothelial inflammatory change may be modest - just taking effect over an entire body network. Platelet activation may be the predominant factor. The micro-clots, even if they were badly clagging the micro-circulation might be invisible.
Post-mortem, the blood coagulates anyway and this occurs quite quickly. It's often been challenging to diagnose if someone died of a thromboembolic event (e.g. PE). I don't think you could detect micro-clots at standard PM, unless you knew to look for them (and we've only just discovered them in living patients).