Sorry
Mouse girl, I guess I missed your post. I wasn't ignoring you.
Since we also have Hodgkin's Lymphoma in 3 generations, I'm guessing we've got a genetic immune abnormality that affects our ability to control herpesviruses.
All three members of my family saw Dr Lerner in Detroit MI, USA. He's probably the most experienced ME/CFS doc in using Valcyte. He was using it before it was even available in pill form, I think. While he is
extremely careful using it, he is not afraid of it -- which makes him an exception in the medical world.
My nature and training -- in engineering -- make me inclined to be a problem-solver. I thought I just needed to do my research, decide where to go for treatment and things would move forward. Boy, did I ever get a rude shock. Medicine is far from scientific -- definitely and art, and largely political as well. For ME/CFS, medicine is not much more than a chaotic mess. Fortunately, we have a very few clinician, like Drs Lerner and Peterson, and a bunch of researchers, like Drs Klimas and Montoya, who actually think like scientists and try to solve our problems. Now if only there was enough money to speed up the process! **sigh**