BurnA
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I think this is a good approach.
Also the shared decision making guidance produced by the NHS
http://sdm.rightcare.nhs.uk/about/shared-decision-making/
Especially
This is a big change in approach and culture for some clinicians.
And from NICE
https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg53/chapter/key-priorities-for-implementation
Especially
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My bold, - I think it is clear, even in NICE that you have a choice and that choice should be respected.
What is the level of severity of your ME? CBT/GET is only recommended by NICE for mild / moderate
ETA - if you look at the Decision Aid on the NHS England website you will see that there is a structure which encourages the patient to weigh up the risks and benefits of each option, and also to consider what is important to them in their own personal circumstances. If you have the energy you could perhaps present a more structured approach to your doctor maybe along these lines
https://decisionaid.ohri.ca/docs/das/OPDG.pdf
I think there are two issues here - the evidence and the doctor respecting your decision.
Thanks for taking the time to reply.
I have no problem refusing the treatment - he is not forcing me to have it. I am just frustrated that his approach is this is the "only evidence based therapy " and therefore his thinking is why would I not do it, instead of seeing the flaws in the studies which led to this treatment.
He is making me feel bad ( unintentionally or not ) by me refusing this treatment which in his eyes works. And of course how can I have any meaningful discussion with him if he genuinely believes Get/cbt is worthwhile. ? It's hard to respect anyone who believes that.
So my main intention is just to make him understand that this is a real Illness of which get/cbt has no part to play.
Thanks.