SpinachHands
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My partner has been having really bad post exertional malaise (writing in full to help with search), but in ways that don't seem to follow their norm. Their energy envelope has been improving, and they can do things now without getting PEM that definitely would have given them PEM a few months ago. However things that would not cause PEM a few months, or even weeks, ago now are giving them horrendous PEM that's lasting way longer than it should. It feels like we're missing something but don't have any doctors helping with this.
Their MCAS has been getting worse every day, we've cut out basically everything that could be a trigger but it's continuing to get worse. We've tried increasing their water intake, electrolytes. They had to cut all their vitamins and supplements a while ago due to the MCAS and the only one successfully reintroduced has been B12. Could it be something they were on was really helping with the PEM and without it things have been worsening? It doesn't really explain why other things have continued improving. Their dysautonomia also seems to be worsening and we're not sure why either.
The only doctor working with us currently is a gastro who is convinced this is all a gut motility issue and they need IV/NJ nutrients to make up for lost micronutrients, but their nutrition levels were tested not long ago and were all fine? We could believe that maybe motility meds could help, but they're not even going to be able to tolerate any until their MCAS gets under control. They've tried 9 different antihistamines to date and all made their MCAS flare up worse. All they're taking currently is Montelukast, ketotifen, and sodium cromoglicate- the first two we are suspicious might be worsening things despite their benefits.
Really we just need a doctor that understands all these conditions and can look at the picture altogether and do more than say "maybe try one more antihistamine". I've contacted so many and I'm really struggling to get a decent doctor.
So, could there be anything else that's wrong that's making their PEM so bad? Is it the worsening MCAS, even though their MCAS has been this bad before without them getting random PEM? Could it be a missing vitamin or nutrient?
(Other current worsening symptoms: episodes of paralysis, head pain/pressure, a crushing/blanketing feeling all over their body, worsening dizziness, stomach churning, sudden fatigue, nightmares, out of character episodes of aggression/agitation, worsening brain fog/memory issues.)
Their MCAS has been getting worse every day, we've cut out basically everything that could be a trigger but it's continuing to get worse. We've tried increasing their water intake, electrolytes. They had to cut all their vitamins and supplements a while ago due to the MCAS and the only one successfully reintroduced has been B12. Could it be something they were on was really helping with the PEM and without it things have been worsening? It doesn't really explain why other things have continued improving. Their dysautonomia also seems to be worsening and we're not sure why either.
The only doctor working with us currently is a gastro who is convinced this is all a gut motility issue and they need IV/NJ nutrients to make up for lost micronutrients, but their nutrition levels were tested not long ago and were all fine? We could believe that maybe motility meds could help, but they're not even going to be able to tolerate any until their MCAS gets under control. They've tried 9 different antihistamines to date and all made their MCAS flare up worse. All they're taking currently is Montelukast, ketotifen, and sodium cromoglicate- the first two we are suspicious might be worsening things despite their benefits.
Really we just need a doctor that understands all these conditions and can look at the picture altogether and do more than say "maybe try one more antihistamine". I've contacted so many and I'm really struggling to get a decent doctor.
So, could there be anything else that's wrong that's making their PEM so bad? Is it the worsening MCAS, even though their MCAS has been this bad before without them getting random PEM? Could it be a missing vitamin or nutrient?
(Other current worsening symptoms: episodes of paralysis, head pain/pressure, a crushing/blanketing feeling all over their body, worsening dizziness, stomach churning, sudden fatigue, nightmares, out of character episodes of aggression/agitation, worsening brain fog/memory issues.)