before the look of disdain from more experienced parents made us ashamed of our parenting shortcomings.
My daughter used to LOVE her leash! I got "THE LOOK" also, but when my daughter enjoyed it so much I just ignored the looks. We used to go to gem shows a lot, and I could be talking to a vendor while my daughter would look in all their trays (she knew better than to touch).
One vendor I talked to became so enamored with my daughter as she was the same age as her 2 year old son she had to leave home in Poland with Grandma, that when I was done talking to her, she actually asked if she could babysit my daughter for a bit as she was so well behaved and this lady was so love sick for her son. I agreed and left them together for about 15-20 minutes. When I came back, she gave my daughter a piece of amber (they were Baltic amber vendors), and she felt a little better with her mommy time.
End of story, 23 years later, my daughter is 25 and a geologist. That lady would be so proud if she only knew. Maybe I will see if I can find her business card (I always kept cards with my purchases) and let her know!
Leashes are amazing, and those parents that give the knowing look should keep to themselves. My daughter to this day remembers having 6 feet of freedom at shows. She absolutely LOVED that thing.