I didn't get a chance to post this earlier but I saw "Unrest" last Fri night and it was my first time seeing a movie in a theatre in 3+ years! I met a close friend from PR there (who no longer posts) and a few other members from PR also attended and it was great to meet them and attach the person to the Avatar! I don't know if they are comfortable w/me sharing who was there so will not mention anyone by name.
I am not able to climb stairs (to the regular movie seats) but luckily there were two seats available for people with wheelchairs that were still free (which was very lucky b/c there were many people in wheelchairs at the film and the theatre was sold out)! I can transfer out of wheelchair and walk short distances but am still limited. I got to sit with a new PR friend and chat about our experiences which I really enjoyed and then after the film, I got to meet up with my long-time friend and spend some time with her.
The film was beautifully done down to the last detail. It was both a documentary about a severe illness and a love story with several scenes that made me cry. If I had never heard of ME/CFS and had seen that film, I would have left without a shred of doubt that ME/CFS is real, it stops life as we know it in it's tracks, it is not recognized or funded, and we need to take action NOW. It also showed us an intimate view into the lives of Jen & Omar as well as several other featured stories including Whitney Dafoe, Jessica Taylor, Karina Hansen, and a few others.
The end of the film was dedicated to the memory of those who have died and I knew three of the people, and one of them, Justin Noble, I knew quite well from months of chatting almost daily with him via PM until he passed away. I was not expecting to see their names and was very glad I had brought kleenex with me!
"Unrest" also solidified for me how different my symptoms are than those in the film. The biggest symptoms which caused my life to come to a screeching halt were POTS w/initially uncontrollable tachycardia, MCAS/allergic reactions, and muscle weakness that affected my lungs and diaphragm so I was constantly short of breath and made my arms too weak to even open my front door in an emergency. The POTS, muscle weakness, and shortness of breath are what led to me using a wheelchair 24/7 since Oct 2014. I was severely limited and disabled yet I had never understood the concept of "PEM" (b/c I do not experience it) and after watching the film, I now do.
The film showed me how you can appear "normal" or "fine" one day and then be nearly comatose/dead during PEM. Versus for me, my days were all the same (and it is only now after high dose IVIG & Rituximab that I have had vast improvement so my days are still the same, but now just at a much higher level). I don't think the film made any reference to POTS, MCAS, or ME/CFS co-morbidities (which I have without having the actual ME/CFS part). Yet I related to just about every scene of searching for a doctor who believed you, getting endless tests, trying endless meds & supplements that did not help, having your career and future life plans all end in an instant, etc.
I also find it so interesting that I have 7 of the 9 Cell Trend autoantibodies that were tested in the Fluge & Mella study and I am a responder to Rituximab. I am certain that my illness is very similar, with a great deal of overlap to ME/CFS, yet different at the same time. I have the calcium autoantibody that goes with LEMS (yet negative on EMG for LEMS). I believe the people with proven B-cell driven autoantibodies are the potential responders to Rituximab even if we have different illnesses in the end.
The film also solidified for me the need for advocacy for all illnesses in which people who were functioning out in society in our normal lives (school, work, socializing) and able to walk, climb stairs, drive a car and do normal tasks and then we just "disappear" yet have not died and are still alive but are hidden in plain sight. I refer to all of us as the "Hidden Illness Community" and the government just wishes that we would go away and easier for them to pretend that we do not exist. Jen mentioned in the film how 80% of people with autoimmune diseases are women and how women are taken more seriously in doctor appts if they have their husband or a male w/hem and this has been my experience as well.
After the film, there was a Q&A and Jen was supposed to attend but she was not feeling well enough after flying from NY back to LA (after being on the Today Show!) so she stayed home to rest and her husband Omar did the Q&A. He was extremely impressive and he talked about the "virtual screenings" so people who are homebound or bed-bound can watch "Unrest". I was so honored that my first movie in a theatre in 3+ years was this one. I really cannot recommend it highly enough and look forward to Jen's next film which I will see and support no matter what it is.
Edit: I have not yet seen "Five foot Two" but hope to see it in the future and have always loved Gaga and saw her in concert before I got sick.