The moderator of Reddit r/cfsme & r/mecfs pushes CBT and brain retraining and GET and bans you if you say something about it.

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I’m not sure but I did “brain retraining” and found it worth my time. I didn’t use any of these big programs. I didn’t pay anything for it. I did it with an OT, who I specifically told I refuse to do any CBT. We did biofeedback, vagus nerve exercises, and a little bit of visualization and meditation based stuff. It absolutely did NOT treat my ME, by any means. However, it did help me a little bit with autonomic control, which in turn improved my ability to rest and pace. Not a lot. But I welcome any improvement to my quality of life.

I get torn to shreds if I say this on Reddit lol…
"Not treat my ME" in quotes makes anything else irrelevant to an ME patient regarding individual improvements regardless of ME. ofcourse you would expect feedback. If i did brain retraining and recovered, i would consider myself lucky and misdiagnosed and certainly not reddit about it to ME patients who have no Cure (me). and if i did brain retraining and it removed unrelated symptoms, i wouldnt bring it up because its kind of pointless as its certainly not sold as just a stress remover
 
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You articulated a lot of points I needed to hear. Despite all the cruel remarks over the years I really want to get better. And I am desperate. As unlikely as it is I have to try. And it is very disturbing something this simple could have saved me and millions of others from decades of suffering. The thing about pseudosciences like this is just about anything is possible all they have to do is imagine it and than start talking their bs and their is never any shortage of suckers to believe it.
Hear this, alot of people are misdiagnosed, especially ones on HealingwithLiz, CFS HEalth, CFS Recovery youtube channels. i know certain individuals on these channels who do not have ME, but sell the programs like they do/did. Believe the science, not these fools. HealingwithLiz argues against all ME research whenever it dismisses CBT/Brain retraining, and ignores all the facts. Even Phil Murray who was well knows to recover from extreme rest, mentioned to me oneday that he cant know for certain if his fatigue was ME. i credit him for saying that. i would too if i just woke up oneday better from a mindshift
 

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i'm such a sucker for testimonials. i think retraining programs are probably worthless but then i hear from someone who swears it cures them. corinne segura from "my chemical free house" is one. she seems intelligent, describes her illness in a way that makes me think she did indeed have me/cfs, and says gupta program is curing her. she says it's more about calming the nervous system, and not about denying or ignoring symptoms. maybe calming the nervous system could help some people?? i know mine is pretty shot and i've always been in fight-flight mode all my life from childhood trauma.

so i swing back and forth on this. but i highly resent any implication that we can "mind over matter" our way out of this hell.
ill wait for Whitney Dafoe's testimonial, one doesn't exist yet. don't get sucked in by YouTube cfs testimonials, i got sucked in until i was severe. They way the medical world has made the term CFS layman when its not, makes it too easy to distinguish a misdiagnosis. For anyone claiming its rude to question this or to prove i have ME myself , well 1. im not cured, and 2. i dont have a 100% biomarker available and neither do they.
3. all ME researches dismiss their stories if its a DNRS one. i dont care anymore if i offend someone gloating about a recovery story that does not add up. Moderators have removed me for sometimes stating the obvious and removing the "positivity" from a post like a recovery one when all i see is harm , waste of time and money. i cant be the only one that thinks common sense needs to be made when a miracle is mentioned.
 

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No offense taken by any of the responses. I'm just wrestling with this internally because some aspects make some sense in weird ways. That might be why a neutral onlooker might find it reasonable. Why medical dr's accept a similar explanation and refuse to advocate for funding.

What these promoters don't consider is a lot of the ways we respond is exactly how someone would respond to a "real" injury. Say someone with traumatic brain injury they probably have brain fog, difficulty concentrating, over reacting to stressful situations, maybe even flue like symptoms. It's not a phobia it's a TBI and everybody accepts it as such because the injuries are diagnosable and documentable and they would look pretty stupid talking that same nonsense about them. At least in the same contexts as done with CFS. IE they may still promote their nonsense because they could say yes your injury is real but you might be overreacting to it.

I didn't know these programs have been going on for 20 years!.
That in and of itself is more evidence they probably don't work. At some point a real cure would almost certainly catch on and everybody would be doing it and getting better.
so many things make so much sense online, you should see how much sense the CIRS protocol and its process makes when watching this video.. ( i am not endorsing this video, its what a naturopath would show a patient to get them in on the protocol, and to a gullible person, it makes so much sense.)

It all makes sense, but, it just is irrelevant to ME/CFS. If it was relevent, we would all be better. For everything that makes sense. If it was relevent, we wouldnt have 20-50 biomarkers different to healthy controls in brain / blood/ muscles
 

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that is interesting, thanks!

i notice that a lot of people who say they do well with the programs have some kind of MCS or exposure issue. i get symptoms from chemicals, too, but i'm also just bad w/o any exposure.
lets cut to the chase, they usually all have another issue that would question a misdiagnosis, "burnout" or "stress" being the main 2 causing their chronic fatigue symptoms, usually irrelevant to post viral ME which most of us would have. I just did an ME study in Australia a year ago and results for it came out, the ME patients in the study had a 20%(i think) difference in Motorneuron behaviour compared to healthy controls, was nice knowing i was apart of another biomarker compared to healthy controls. https://www.meresearch.org.uk/research/taylor-064/
 

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Theirs a positivity CFS facebook group that has an insane Cult, most of its members look like what you would expect from a naturopath, and it would be completely full of misdiagnosed ME patients with the usual "Burnout" fatigue people giving incorrect advice, the moment i questioned DNRS with science i got a reply from 100+ of them and some of them complaining like a Karen would at your local rally, seriously destrought. Another horrible group is the medical medium one, where they are all focused on nutrition = CURE... and they have Fibro and CFS pages in the book which are just w@nk. Edit - and the CIRS community who cant decide whether MECFS patients do or dont have CIRS... but the naturopath with the money to make will.

Yeah I don't know what I'd do without this forum either because there's so many people here that come from so many angles. Overall there hasn't been a single person here who has completely figured this out and a lot of us are on entire pharmacy's worth of supplements every days and always trialing something new or testing this/that with this/that treatment. If I quit everything I know I'm finished. I can think or believe whatever I want but that's not going to change the crash I may not recover from's result.

This is coming from someone with actual PTSD and genuine anxiety problems I am always further dissecting. Do they interact with various states of my nervous system and immune system causing various symptoms? Yes but they never cause them outside of a vascular fluctuation from a trigger causing more head pressure or a certain neurological state making me more prone to depression from thing A, B, or C. If I cry too much this can lead to a migraine if I'm not careful. Often the symptoms control what I am prone to feeling at the time and what memory reference networks my nervous system is using from what the state of my symptoms is forcing. It doesn't matter what my mindset is, this doesn't change until some physical process going on under the hood switches state and starts functioning more normally again. That was quite the mouthful but that is the most coherent way I can describe the intersection of genuine controllable to a degree mental health struggles and disease states.
 

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Yeah I don't know what I'd do without this forum either because there's so many people here that come from so many angles. Overall there hasn't been a single person here who has completely figured this out and a lot of us are on entire pharmacy's worth of supplements every days and always trialing something new or testing this/that with this/that treatment. If I quit everything I know I'm finished. I can think or believe whatever I want but that's not going to change the crash I may not recover from's result.

This is coming from someone with actual PTSD and genuine anxiety problems I am always further dissecting. Do they interact with various states of my nervous system and immune system causing various symptoms? Yes but they never cause them outside of a vascular fluctuation from a trigger causing more head pressure or a certain neurological state making me more prone to depression from thing A, B, or C. If I cry too much this can lead to a migraine if I'm not careful. Often the symptoms control what I am prone to feeling at the time and what memory reference networks my nervous system is using from what the state of my symptoms is forcing. It doesn't matter what my mindset is, this doesn't change until some physical process going on under the hood switches state and starts functioning more normally again. That was quite the mouthful but that is the most coherent way I can describe the intersection of genuine controllable to a degree mental health struggles and disease states.
Im as severe as my ME has ever been in 10 years and my mental health is totally fine.
Ive been more stressed when my ME was very mild and i was working full time with no bad Dysautonomia symptoms.
I really dont think their is any link whatsoever between mental health or psych and ME ,besides added oxidative stress like catching a virus or getting a vaccine while having the ME issue which could cause problems with the added OS, and stress is one of the worst OS events we can have that can certainly cause decline, usually i spring back to the baseline i was at the moment the stress is removed though.. but less likely if i catch covid, get a covid vaccine, or exercise..

I can only speak on behalf of myself though and post viral ME patients, im unsure about car crash/surgery and so on ME patients. Some of them get CCI stuff done and suddenly are in remission so i cant know if thats ME or a CCI neck issue which makes me wonder if that’s a different issue mimicking ME’s ANS dysfunction but getting the same diagnosis. It’s so complicated.

Edit: I used to suggest joining X for real-time MECFS updates from research teams, doctors, and advocates, but it’s become too political lately. Everyone has their say, including me, but only certain individuals accept others views, and only certain individuals cry and run away because their is no moderator to demand removal due to negativity as they would in facebook groups and on X when getting upset.

Even ME researchers/advocates I followed now post about wars or take sides on issues (publicly), which is fine privately but derails the focus when you’re there for ME info and just follow them for that. I don’t mind differing opinions and don’t block people over them, but many of the opposite beliefs do with insults and demands.., and it’s constant.
Sadly, even the ME and LC communities on X spend too much time publicly clashing over ideology or social views and eachother without just being noble and just providing facts like papers and research that exists., dismissing others with ME if they don’t align. When at a workplace for example it should all be irrelevant what religion your colleagues have for example...

This forum is a relief because it keeps worldviews out and focuses solely on ME. I no longer recommend X to newcomers—the risk of being attacked by anonymous accounts causing more harm than good isn’t worth it. The only positive is that if a DNRS advocate account like Paul Garner speaks about ME being a burnout mental health issue, its community noted quickly with facts about the post being incorrect where everywhere else a gullible patient could believe whats being said online as its all seen as fact. Like r/cfs reddit for example when someone claims recovery. An anonymous user who could have any fatigue condition diagnosed with CFS which we know is used laymen by GPs globally and an illness with no cure besides some recovering usually early on before it can even be diagnosed. Generally some of these stories are so obviously not ME and red flags are apparent, but if your question them, your banned/blocked and gullible patients who are desperate for full health will listen to the story and be harmed. Or atleast waste money.

I ran a small ME chat group once that was going very well until someone with a different sex and opinion to me outside of ME demanded me add a female and unisex mod or they would leave and take other members with them because they felt uncomfortable, when nothing was ever noted as uncomfortable in the group, it was usually just patients sharing advice or talking about research or supplements and which local doctors to recommend, basically everyone has spoken positively of the group besides one person who was an odd one out.. , i was basically forced into it for group harmony reasons but the group was never the same and that person who complained ended up leaving anyway…. Its a crazy and mental world we live in and its very hard to find a space where its ME and only ME with ME views being allowed and respected, everything else is irrelevant, like DNRS, and world views.
This individuals use their social status to use power and its very hard to remove that privilege from them if they demand it.
 
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"Not treat my ME" in quotes makes anything else irrelevant to an ME patient regarding individual improvements regardless of ME. ofcourse you would expect feedback. If i did brain retraining and recovered, i would consider myself lucky and misdiagnosed and certainly not reddit about it to ME patients who have no Cure (me). and if i did brain retraining and it removed unrelated symptoms, i wouldnt bring it up because its kind of pointless as its certainly not sold as just a stress remover
Sure but I think autonomic control is quite relevant for many ME patients
 

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I would like to take a moment to remind everyone that Gupta (inventor of brain retraining) based his "theory" off of Simon Wessely's "false illness beliefs" model which says that believing in symptoms causes symptoms. It's nonsense.
 

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Yep, that's exactly how my belief in birth defects and in autism while I was a fetus in 1962 caused my couple of minor birth defects and autism when I was born in 1963. 🤔
I got real busy at age one, since being allergic to everything is great for harnessing attention. Might as well warp some bones too, after all, chronic spinal inflammation is good for the complexion. I don't need rouge (aka blush, aka pink stuff females wear on their cheeks)
 

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I don't need rouge (aka blush, aka pink stuff females wear on their cheeks)
Which actually kind of sounds logical given your member name,
from Online Etymology via their browser add on,

rufous(adj.)​

"of a dull red color, reddish-brown," 1781, from Latin rufus "red, reddish, tawny, red-haired," from an Osco-Umbrian cognate of Latin ruber "red" (from PIE root *reudh- "red, ruddy"). Mostly in names or descriptions of birds or other animals; sometimes frowned upon in early use as just a French word for "reddish." Related: Rufulous.
 

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According to some- this will give us “autonomic control”……

I would like to take a moment to remind everyone that Gupta (inventor of brain retraining) based his "theory" off of Simon Wessely's "false illness beliefs" model which says that believing in symptoms causes symptoms. It's nonsense.
 

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the brain retraining ppl say ME is a limbic disorder. i just googled that and there is some evidence

from this study:
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8628916/

The results of this study show that brain blood flow abnormalities in the limbic system may contribute to ME/CFS pathogenesis.


so trying to give them the benefit of the doubt here, keeping an open mind
i asked a proponent of brain retraining about this.


me:
does this apply to illnesses with biomarkers such as cancer?

proponent:
gupta, DNRS etc don't claim to help with cancer but the testimonials for joe dispenza meditations and cancer are very interesting (the people that get better in those testimonials don't stop traditional treatments though just fyi).

me:
I'm glad it's helped you but it's always been unsettling to me that they only claim to help marginalized, misunderstood illnesses without a biomarker and that medical science has abused the patients of for decades.

proponent:

they do claim to help the body along to heal from illnesses that have a biomarker like lyme as an example if you have limbic system dysregulation as well, there are a number of other examples in the groups, bc bringing the body into it's natural healing state can help with a lot of things, it helps the body to heal (there are certain known medical conditions that the body just won't heal from if the body never comes back into parasympathetic) and it can help treatments work better or even just help the body to tolerate treatments that it reacts to when in a state of overreactivity.

though they don't recommend you stop necessary treatments if you have something that needs treatment.
but it's primarily aimed at conditions that are primarily limbic system disorders, and those of course don't have a singular biomarker bc they are limbic system driven.

me:

but ME does actually have a biomarker isolated in research; it's just not in wide use because of lack of funding and awareness. And similar brain lesions have been found in patients in ME studies.
I'm wondering how it can be claimed it is primarily a limbic system disorder?

proponent:

the theory of the limbic disorder makes much more sense to me and correlates much more with 1000s of recoveries as well as my own progress. scientific studies by the gupta program show this but it's still a field that needs much more funding.

I'm only interested in the theories that lead to recovery.

-end exchange

i'm posting this here in case anyone has any insights into what they are saying, not to bash anyone. please be kind.
 

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the brain retraining ppl say ME is a limbic disorder.
At this point my expectation is less "is a limbic disorder" and more "includes limbic disorder".

And talking about the brain connects in my memory with this from 2014,
(yay! today is a fairly good brain day!)
(at least in this aspect)
➡️There are more brain things going on than just the limbic bits,

https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-n...bnormalities-in-chronic-fatigue-patients.html
The analysis yielded three noteworthy results, the researchers said. First, an MRI showed that overall white-matter content of CFS patients' brains, compared with that of healthy subjects' brains, was reduced. The term "white matter" largely denotes the long, cablelike nerve tracts carrying signals among broadly dispersed concentrations of "gray matter." The latter areas specialize in processing information, and the former in conveying the information from one part of the brain to another.

That finding wasn't entirely unexpected, Zeineh said. CFS is thought to involve chronic inflammation, quite possibly as a protracted immunological response to an as-yet unspecified viral infection. Inflammation, meanwhile, is known to take a particular toll on white matter.

But a second finding was entirely unexpected. Using an advanced imaging technique - diffusion-tensor imaging, which is especially suited to assessing the integrity of white matter - Zeineh and his colleagues identified a consistent abnormality in a particular part of a nerve tract in the right hemisphere of CFS patients' brains. This tract, which connects two parts of the brain called the frontal lobe and temporal lobe, is called the right arcuate fasciculus, and in CFS patients it assumed an abnormal appearance.

Furthermore, there was a fairly strong correlation between the degree of abnormality in a CFS patient's right arcuate fasciculus and the severity of the patient's condition, as assessed by performance on a standard psychometric test used to evaluate fatigue.

And trying to find what I did with bookmarks, saved pages, et cetera for that,
brought up this from this year about an organ within that limbic system,
so,
stuff is going on in the brain, no doubt about that,
but what exactly is causing which and how to fix, modify, mitigate things,
there's the big question ...

https://news.griffith.edu.au/2025/0...s-detected-in-long-covid-and-me-cfs-patients/
Lead author, Dr Kiran Thapaliya, said the MRI identified significantly larger hippocampal volume in Long COVID and ME/CFS patients compared to healthy individuals without these conditions.

“Furthermore, the study showed similar hippocampal volume in patients, emphasising striking brain similarities between the two conditions,” Dr Thapaliya said.

“The research also reported the hippocampal volume was associated with symptom severity in both patient groups.

“Therefore, hippocampal impairment in Long COVID and ME/CFS patients may play a significant role in cognitive difficulties such as memory problems, difficulty concentrating, and delayed responses to questions or conversations.”

Larger hippocampal volume could be due to neurogenesis, the formation of new neurons, or a virus in the brain.
 

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At this point my expectation is less "is a limbic disorder" and more "includes limbic disorder".
Yes to that.

I feel the boiling over hippocampus. It's baking inside my brain, in close proximity to my baking eyeballs.

All that Rufosity. It's where the little ladies sit and plug the wires in to connect your phone call. They need AC.
 

Rufous McKinney

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I question this statement:" Larger hippocampal volume could be due to neurogenesis, the formation of new neurons, or a virus in the brain"

Are those the only reasons? Doubt it.
 

Rufous McKinney

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I queried Google AI and it says increased volume of the hippocampus means smarter and better.

so in our case, where did these Positive qualities go?
 
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