I don't really know what it could be caused by, but it sounds most like this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cataplexy
One possible cause is like the so-called sleep paralysis - the paralysis that we get when entering REM sleep is activated when conscious, a common symptom of those who suffer from narcolepsy. My first questions besides those infection related (fever, meningitis?) would be about sleep quality and rhythms, whether you take melatonin or anything else that effects sleep. Could also be somehow linked to migranes as well.
As I was reading the thread, this thought came to me as well. Many years ago, I experienced episodes of severe cataplexy, in which I would drop like a rag doll and couldn't move my extremities; just my fingers, toes, and eyelids. In all instances, extreme emotions brought them on, typically fear.
The worst drop attack ever was when my cat got on top of the refrigerator while I was cooking dinner on the stove. I couldn't see him since the refrigerator was behind me. But the little fur ball leaped onto the stove and landed in the frying pan! Next thing I know, I was down on the floor, frozen. It lasted for about a minute. Scared the cat more than me.
But I've had far less severe attacks of all-over muscle weakness that lasted for several hours, where I couldn't stand up and walk. All I could do was sit propped up or slumped over. And drool. I remember the drool. Yuck.
My sleep neurologist diagnosed both of these as cataplexy. I've got the narcolepsy gene, and I've been tested in the sleep lab for daytime sleep latency, but the results were negative. Experts claim cataplexy without narcolepsy doesn't exist, but I'm not the only one with obvious drop attacks who doesn't have narcolepsy. For our patient cohort, I believe the experts are clueless.
Interestingly for some starting to wiggle their toes is they only way they can regain functioning.
The toe thing is more difficult than the finger thing. I've had a couple of these attacks on the freeway, during those near misses when everyone slams on their brakes at the same time and you're absolutely positive you're going to hit the vehicle in front of you. I lose muscle tone in my legs and arms and slump against the steering wheel. What gets me functioning again is wiggling my fingers. Then my hands, lower arms, feet, lower legs, etc. Fortunately, it never lasted for more than about 10 seconds. Put the paralysis was instantaneous, within seconds.
Guillain-Barre has onset over days to a week or so and takes months to years to recover (if at all), it doesn't come and go rapidly like this.
I had Guillain-Barre about 3 years ago, after a really bad gut illness. It came on gradually, just a few weeks after I recovered from the gut bug. It was severe peripheral neuropathy with some mild muscle weakness. Started in my feet and hands and moved slowly up my body. Took over six months for recovery, which wasn't 100%. Still have numbness in my feet and hands, especially my toes and fingers.