I am trying so hard NOT to be a Hypocrite
I'm the big mouth that keeps saying we all can not attack any ME/CFS groups or advocates and that we must remain united and not have this insane infighting since the government wins (divide and conquer and we do their work on us by us).
Well, I was not thrilled when I saw Vernon put in at CAA. I couldn't really figure it out. Why did she leave CDC (and probably a secure Federal government career position, I assume - but that may not be true) to go to an advocacy group? If she had strong convictions about ME/CFS and that we are indeed physically sick and not mentally ill (Reeves psychobabble) then it may well have been better for us and her convictions to stay at the CDC and fight from within.
I admit, I have not cared for what has come out of her mouth and what has NOT come out of her mouth when she should have been quite forceful on our behalf. Can't figure that out either.
So, sitting here and trying not to be a hypcrite (and prob. failing) by making not nice comments about Vernon, about the best I can say is that if you do not like what CAA is doing then email them. I have. Tell them what you think is wrong and how it should be fixed. If you are past fed up, don't donate and tell them why. Join and support other advocacy groups so that your voice is heard. A single lone voice is not heard but a huge worldwide collective voice is indeed heard loud and clear.
Remember, just because CAA touted itself as THE CFIDS advocacy group speaking and working on behalf of us doesn't MEAN that they are or will or even have any right to do so. They can say they are the major spokesgroup for us sick, but that doesn't make it so.
There really are so many more ME/CFS advocacy groups out there now that you can pick and choose who you want to support and what areas you want to play in. If you want your donations to go to straight research on the Retrovirus and its impact on ME/CFS then donate to WPI (I do) and be a part of the groups doing just that. If you want to be part of a large group that concentrates on hitting the Media (in all of its shapes and forms), then donate and/or provide ideas to MCWPA. PANDORA is another wonderful advocacy group headed by Marly Silverman and this group is really knocking themselves out in so many areas - see their website and be surprised what all they are into. Also know that the organizations I mentioned are not getting the big salaries (salaries? I donate to MCWPA and support them, ditto the other members) - and the donations to these groups are not eaten up in overhead as other non-profits are beaten up for doing.
Bottom line: voice your concerns to the CAA and if you have had enough, then ignore them. Do be a part of other advocacy groups so that you are part of a larger and more powerful group.
I am not a group joiner type of person. I don't do cliques and stay far away from any group. But I did realize that my lone voice was just not going to be heard and that I did need to be part of an advocacy group that did do a major job in promoting our cause and informing and educating the public on ME/CFS and now, the deadly Retrovirus. I picked MCWPA because I already knew the people working behind it (Tina Tidmore for starters - read on PR what she writes and how astute she is) and felt quite comfortable that this group of people were decent, well meaning, super smart, effective and that there would not be the fights and egos involved. I was right. We all are indeed friends and support each other as friends. When one person goes down (sick or family issues, etc) then others move in to pick up that person's "job" until they are able to return and jump back in again. We are indeed loyal and supportive of eachother which is quite nice. There are no egos, no one trying to outpower the rest of the team - just a group of ME/CFS sick people trying really hard to do what they (and the members!) believe needs to be done to get us funding, clinical trials, recognition/acceptance/support by the governments (worldwide) and the public.
Sorry, that was not meant to be an MCWPA marketing spin. Once I start on a topic I go off rambling and on tangents and eventually make my way back to what I really mean to say (sometimes and sometimes I stay lost in the forest). Email CAA with your complaints/concerns/suggestions and look elsewhere for other groups (plural) to be a part of. CAA declared itself to be our spokesgroup. WE all did not vote on them to do that role. So, just ignore, quite wasting your time and energy on beating up on CAA and go elsewhere.
Finally, I am not convinced that we do need ONE major advocacy group out there speaking for us all. I have a voice and I certainly can speak for me. I can also use my voice and ideas and work alone and with other groups to get the messages out that I want out. Doing my own thing AND being part of a group whose goals, missions, values I agree with (MCWPA) works for me. I also support other advocacy orgs too when they are doing things that I like and think need to be done. CAA doesn't meet my advocacy needs, but other groups do. Plus CAA has gone off on the research side of the house and not the advocacy side. So expecting them to be the strong voice for us probably isn't fair to them. Vernon probably should just keep her mouth closed and do or support real research.
Hopefully my rambling didn't cause me to be the full blown Hypocrite I swore I would not be.