Than there is DRACO which a targeted drug that kills viral infected cells.
I'm sure his father will hear about this.
(Sorry, I couldn't resist!)
This is the second time I've heard that mild/moderate cases are under-represented. I haven't counted people up, but I'm minor/moderate. Used to be more moderate, am now tending towards mild. That 'point of no return' place I keep hearing about scares the beejesus out of me, and so I take pretty careful care of myself with very mild exercise (like walking) and a variety of supplements already discussed, as well as management strategies that involve being very aware of my body and its reactions, and stopping at any early warning signs that arise. My diet is also what others would probably call "extremely fussy", but it's what makes my body respond well, so I stick to it.
In short,
@leokitten, I am in the same boat as you. Even if I can't work full-time, I can work about 30 hours a week from home and still do all right. I can go out with my friends and walk around awhile (when I am feeling well, which is more and more the case). I do my own driving and grocery shopping.
But everyone here can remember when this was true of them, too. They are no longer in this position. Things have changed.
There are a few 'struck by lightning' cases of ME: 'I had the flu and next week I couldn't remember my own name' - but it seems to me that even for the 'fast onset' group, 'fast' doesn't mean 'instantly'. The illness
developed rather than appeared. Every case is different, and there's no way to know if something done a bit differently could've helped. Unless there was one moment where it was obvious: a point of no return, a specific decision with disastrous consequences which, in some cases, there is. Several people here have shared their stories of this point of no return.
I quit my job before it killed me, but only just: and doing so was the opposite, my 'point of return'. Today I feel three or four times better than I did a year ago... but the intervening time. I can't even describe it. It makes me so grateful to be where I am right now, and that feeling is just as huge as spectre of my previous level of ME, in proportion to it. I am also acutely aware there are pathways I could travel that would lead me back.
Did I have a choice to quit my work? Of course. It was just the only reasonable one, given the consequences of continuing. At the time, it felt awful yet inevitable, but even in the moment I knew I'd made the right choice, and now I am proud I was brave enough to make it.
In short: this thread is emotionally charged because it talks about having to leave work (a very stressful decision that most of us have had to face)
, and because some of the comments here can be taken to mean that 'pushing through' until a crash occurs is a necessity for anyone who wishes to be a responsible adult. "I can't quit my job because I am responsible to others", implies that
no one who is responsible to others (which is all of us!) can/should ever make the decision to quit their job (which many of us have, in fact, done). However, I don't believe the post was meant to cast doubt on others' actions in any way, shape or form, but to express the frustration we all feel when we face job-related issues.
@leokitten - your decision is yours to make. You do have the choice open to you to quit, and saying you 'can't' is a way of avoiding facing the fact that the decision is your own. Your reasoning so far seems that you will not have a point of no return because your ME is not severe enough for this to happen, but this reasoning is fallacious. The
reason some of us are so ill is the point of no return, rather than points of no return only happening to very ill people. You will either make significant accommodations to your condition, or your condition will worsen: those are your two choices.
There are not two options jobwise, however: continuing to run yourself into the ground, or giving up entirely on life and sitting alone in the dark. Begin looking around for jobs that require less activity, say 'no' to things you know will cause you physical or emotional stress, and start doing so proactively rather than when you're already at wit's end. Start making plans. We're all in this for the long haul, and your health decisions now will affect you long-term.
We are all here with you, with twenty questions for every hard-won answer. Listen to the answers we give; we're not just blowing smoke.
Peace out, guys. Saying 'no' to this stressor and stepping on outta here...
- J