My 19-year-old son has had M.E./ CFS since getting Glandular Fever 3 and a half years ago. He is housebound and socially isolated other than close family but his worst symptom is insomnia. He takes Zopiclone to sleep most nights and only occasionally manages to sleep without it - albeit latent, restless, disrupted sleep. He does a lot of meditation and breath work, doesn't nap during the day, follows all the sleep hygiene protocols - sunlight in the morning etc., and does NLP exercises to help calm and maintain a positive outlook.
With the meditation and NLP, there have been improvements in his daytime slightly 'wired' feeling - he mostly feels calm, but hardly ever feels sleepy.
It is like his brain never gets the signal to sleep.
The interesting thing is we have tried various alternative treatments and supplements and sometimes they work for a time but within a few days to a week the insomnia returns.
The latest thing we are trying is Mestinon/ Pyridostigmine. This was prescribed to him by a specialist because he gets venous pooling in his feet. The medication did make him feel calmer during the day and after taking it for a week or so he did start to sleep at night. For almost a whole week he slept well without sleeping tablets and then the insomnia started to return.
This seems to be the pattern and makes it seem as though new treatments work by distracting his 'brain'. Consequently, he can sleep for a while until his brain makes sense of it and then it is back to being 'switched on'. I realise that this is just me creating some narrative to try to make sense of what is going on and, likely, this is not at all what is actually happening.
We wonder if he is in some sort of perpetual flight or fight state, however, my sense is that it is more complex and nuanced than this. Despite this, we wonder if Ketamine of psilocybin mushrooms might help in some way. Ketamine because it can help with the fight-flight thing and psilocybin because it can assist with brain plasticity. Neither of these things are easily available in the country where we live.
I understand that M.E. comes in many different forms, however, is it true that there are two distinct groups? Those that 'sleep' a lot and often dose, and those that simply never feel tired and just get progressively more wired until they need pharmaceuticals to help. If this is the case it would seem that these are quite different symptoms or very different manifestations. I have tried to read all the science but somehow I can never retain or adequately comprehend.
Anyway, I would appreciate any clues anyone may have.
p.s. we have tried low-dose anti-depressants - amitriptyline and mirtazapine but my son couldn't handle the feeling these gave him and they didn't seem to help much with sleep.
With the meditation and NLP, there have been improvements in his daytime slightly 'wired' feeling - he mostly feels calm, but hardly ever feels sleepy.
It is like his brain never gets the signal to sleep.
The interesting thing is we have tried various alternative treatments and supplements and sometimes they work for a time but within a few days to a week the insomnia returns.
The latest thing we are trying is Mestinon/ Pyridostigmine. This was prescribed to him by a specialist because he gets venous pooling in his feet. The medication did make him feel calmer during the day and after taking it for a week or so he did start to sleep at night. For almost a whole week he slept well without sleeping tablets and then the insomnia started to return.
This seems to be the pattern and makes it seem as though new treatments work by distracting his 'brain'. Consequently, he can sleep for a while until his brain makes sense of it and then it is back to being 'switched on'. I realise that this is just me creating some narrative to try to make sense of what is going on and, likely, this is not at all what is actually happening.
We wonder if he is in some sort of perpetual flight or fight state, however, my sense is that it is more complex and nuanced than this. Despite this, we wonder if Ketamine of psilocybin mushrooms might help in some way. Ketamine because it can help with the fight-flight thing and psilocybin because it can assist with brain plasticity. Neither of these things are easily available in the country where we live.
I understand that M.E. comes in many different forms, however, is it true that there are two distinct groups? Those that 'sleep' a lot and often dose, and those that simply never feel tired and just get progressively more wired until they need pharmaceuticals to help. If this is the case it would seem that these are quite different symptoms or very different manifestations. I have tried to read all the science but somehow I can never retain or adequately comprehend.
Anyway, I would appreciate any clues anyone may have.
p.s. we have tried low-dose anti-depressants - amitriptyline and mirtazapine but my son couldn't handle the feeling these gave him and they didn't seem to help much with sleep.