Hip I am somewhat taken aback that you denegrate the basic care of protecting patient dignity and treating them with respect as "touchy-feely".
I was trained thoroughly in what you seem to have no time for. In fact it was possitively drummed into us.
Let me give you exampes;
I was trained in making a bed with patient in the bed. Two members of staff would go to the patient and explain what needed to be done. Extra pain meds would be given if required because we were touchy-feely about inducing unnecessary pain in the patient.
I would roll the patient towards me as gently as possible (touch feely as you see) The other nurse rolls up the bed sheets and tucks them under her. and sets up the clean sheet.
Then,with a loose sheet over her so she isn't flashing her bum to the rest of the ward - how touchy feely of us - we roll her over the lump to the other nurse- but only when s/he was ready as it was he patient who was suffering here not us - and pull out the dirty linen and straighen up the clean making sure she is comfortable with pillows.
All the time we are speaking with the patient.
When I was in hospt in July I watched two members of staff perform this without any communication with the very sick woman they were heaving about and speed was obviously more important than care.
Even when I worked in a children's hospice where many of the children had no language we still treated them with care and respect.
I don't see this as touchy-feely I see it as basic good human behaviour.
I've seen a vet treat my kids pets better than some doctor treat fellow human beings.
As for the changes in training I have had third year student nurses and SHO doctors work with me who did not even know how to speak with a patient. All their learning comes from books and in a Uni classroom. Placements are so short they barely get to grips with the reality of the job. Doctors training is even worse. They think nurses should do everything and helping a patient is beneath their dignity. Sadly I have seen this in qualified nurses too who won't help with patient care.
I had one student practically have a panic attack when I asked her to sit with a fairly well patient and talk with her.
This was in a psychi hospt. As far as I was concerned the number 1 skill an RMN required was talking with the patient and listening to them.
I saved someone from prison once simply by talking with her. I probably saved a life that day too as she had planned to kill someone. Sometimes what you call touchy-feely can be pretty difficult. What would have happened if I had decided talking with and listening to someone with a mental illness was too touchy-feely to be bothered with?
But then Hip, going by the behaviour of staff I've had to deal with since being ill perhaps your view of the inherent dignity of the person is the common one.
I'll say one other thing about training. I had a student nurse who was so dreadful (3rd year) that I referred her. This means I failed her placement. No matter what I or other staff did with her we couldn't get her to do the job even safely let alone with skill.(And btw patients are not stupid. They pick up on poor staff and it has knock on effects in the way the ward/unit runs)
The tutor from the Uni came down and basically leaned on me very heavily to pass her.
I stood my ground and she was referred. However six months later she was qualified. The thought that someone as frankly dangerous as she was caring for you or someone you love (if love isn't too touchy-feely) should worry you just a little.