jeff_w
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The following is very dangerous to the vast majority of people on this board. It's also very seductive, because most people would prefer to do this than to pace themselves. I'm concerned that @Bansaw and others on here looking for advice will read the following and then be harmed by it:
In other words, if the vast majority of people on this board took @TigerLilea's advice, they would be made much worse. "Push yourself for 24 years" is a quick path to becoming bedbound if I ever saw one.
Her advice would only apply to people without this illness or to people with a very rare of form of ME/CFS that is resistant to progressing.
And @TigerLilea, I realize my post here might come across as a criticism of you. That's not my intent, because I know you meant no harm and were just sharing what works for you. I think you are extremely fortunate to have much more resilience than just about anyone else with ME/CFS. The problem is, you're so rare that your advice can really do damage.
The only reason why @TigerLilea has that "push yourself, life is too short..." philosophy is that she has an extremely rare, non-progressive form of ME/CFS. Another possibility is that she might be fortunate to not have ME/CFS at all.I have been pushing myself now for 24 years and continue to do so. Life is too short not to squeeze out every second that you can. I tried the resting and pacing and it didn't make me feel any better.
In other words, if the vast majority of people on this board took @TigerLilea's advice, they would be made much worse. "Push yourself for 24 years" is a quick path to becoming bedbound if I ever saw one.
Her advice would only apply to people without this illness or to people with a very rare of form of ME/CFS that is resistant to progressing.
And @TigerLilea, I realize my post here might come across as a criticism of you. That's not my intent, because I know you meant no harm and were just sharing what works for you. I think you are extremely fortunate to have much more resilience than just about anyone else with ME/CFS. The problem is, you're so rare that your advice can really do damage.
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