so i was reading that people with EDS have low success with orthopaedic surgery cuz the healing is different and the ligaments are weak etc. i am wondering....what does henderson, bolognese, gilete etc do to combat these things during surgery?
oh this makes me so mad. another thing you cannot get treated for in canada...just go to useless support groups and talk about how you cant get help ugh. i have had enough of that. thats all this country ever provides.
@Daffodil, I understand that you are
overwhelmed by your situation, but I want to tell you a story to be an encouragement to you that you to not have be
overtaken by your situation.
There once was a girl who went off to serve her country and came out 2 years later debilitated and broken with no clear diagnosis, which meant no medical care. She had access to subpar care, but nobody knew what to do. The love of her life married her, and a couple of years later, he also became disabled and unable to continue his service to the country, He also has access to subpar care. They have spent years working whatever jobs they could keep in order to get access to better medical care. They sold their nice comfy home & moved into a place they never thought they would have to live in to survive on much less than they make. All of this was done to get the little girl a proper diagnosis and medical care. She fought for many years pushing way too hard working and sleeping in the parking lot after work to have enough energy to get home. He took jobs that he knew would put him in physical pain because they had health insurance. They have done things that people said couldn't be done, but they
chose not to listen to the voices of doubt because they want the girl to be well again. They have put thousands of hours into researching diseases and treatment options and were able to find one doctor who has never given up the hope for an answer. There are SO many amazing people on here like
@jeff_w.
@Gingergrrl,
@Hip,
@Murph,
@debored13,
@mattie,
@StarChild56 and many, many, many more who I forgot to mention that all have one thing in common. They carry on from day to day with persistence and eschew doubt, they do not blame their circumstances. They all find any possible way to overcome whatever obstacle is in front of them. They are the most valuable resources we have here because they know how to make things happen.
@Daffodil, I want to to know that marrying an American is not going to fix your health insurance problems, Americans have health insurance problems. You will find all the answers you need if you take it all one step at a time and look under every rock and around every corner for an answer. I think most pwME would agree that nobody cares about our health like we care about our health. Persistence is the key.