Valentijn. I appreciate your opinion and defending professor de Meirleir's way of working.
This will be my last reply on this subject, I refuse to be pushed in the guilty by stupidity corner.
You first point about them not having English as a native language is true, English isn't my native language either, I'm Dutch so I didn't have to speak English with his assistant Ira de Smet or with Professor de Meirleir himself. We had our conversations in Dutch or in Flemish.
So that's a moot point. I pretty sure I understood very well what she said.
Let's not forget that my appointments were also booked weeks ahead and they misscalculated the phone consultation, time wise.
I gave them a 6 hour window. 11:00, 12:00(midnight) or 1:00 in the night for me and I also suggested 8:00am, 9:00 am or later which would mean after business hours in Belgium but this was not an option, I also suggested the weekend, knowing he writes his reports on weekends, I also suggested to have a conversation when he was back in Nevada, end of January. But I guess that is not flexible enough. I wonder what your suggestion would have been, time related.
A clinic staff as experienced as his is, he told me this himself, should be flexible enough to have another time available for a phone conversation that is not in the middle if the night. Keep in mind I have a reversed sleep cycle and my sleep hours are not like the regular ones. I fall asleep around 3:00 or 4:00 am when my cortisol is at its lowest point. I do not function at 5:00 in the morning and quite frankly I'm more than fed up about having to defend myself about this.
My point is, if he could discuss my results with me 6 weeks after my initial consult during a phone or Skype conversation why should I have to wait 4 months for a dictated result? Seems to me it will take the same amount of time that was reserved for my phone consult. Instead of talking to me he would dictate it and it would be send to me with no options to ask questions.
Wrt to waiting for treatment. You don't know me. At all. I have been ill since 1970 when I was 17 years old, was diagnosed in Enschede by professor Rasker with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis in 1980 which at that time was a legit illness in the Netherlands. Don't lecture me about going decades without treatment because I have, up to a point that I'm bedbound and in an almost vegative state.
I moved to the USA in the hope on better treatment options. I know all about waiting lists and how busy experts can be and how disfunctional an office staff can be. I was on a waiting lists of one of those experts for over a year and another for almost 3 years. I contacted prof de Meirler's office and got an email from mrs.de Smet that prof de Meirleir wanted to see me in Oct in Nevada.
I do not get up and fly to Nevada. I can't even walk to the kitchen. My husband rebuild our truck and made a bed for me to lie on while we traveled for 15 hours. I guess anyone can imagine what this did to my condition. Even though I could lie down the difference in elevation traveling over the passes caused major post external malaise.
You must have heard about those severely ill patients that loose hope and are on the brink of suicide. Well I was/am one of those. I wonder how hard you would fight after being ill for almost 40 years without any improvement and more than once seeing death in the eye. Do you roll over and give up and wait till the expert finds the time to let you know his treatment protocol and risk going backwards every day or do you fight with all you got and try to get treatment for this new diagnose and new infections as soon as possible before the infection totally has ruined your heart and your dream of ever seeing and holding your grand kids in the Netherlands completely?
On second thought, don't answer that.
Also no need to lecture me on Nagalase and Yersinia, after 40 years of ME and advocacy and doing research I'm well versed in reading my own test results.
In case anyone is wondering if I wrote this report about seeing prof de Meirleir to complain about him, no I did not, I still think he is a brilliant physician. I wrote to warn other people who want to see him not to have the same expectations as I had. Heck even my local doctor is baffled by the lack of response and has offered to contact him. So no, I don't think it's normal practice, not according to the people I spoke to health care workers and patients who are seeing other experts. Once they have a diagnose they get treatment and are not kept hanging for months, no matter what you say.
Be well.