Maddy,
if you are infected without a condom, it is totally different from us.
I have said this many times, in China, with the condom, it could be infected as well. Most people get infected when they receive oral sex without condom. Some was infected even with condom, like myself. Some people passed the virus to their children. Tell me how? the only explanation is the daily house contact can spread the virus. I don't want to argue. It is a fact. Saliva can pass the virus, no doubt. I am not sure whether the sweat will pass it or not, but one infected met me in person and told me he passed the virus to the child when huging. He had lots of sweat then.
Some people did take revenge on the socitey, some are spreading on purpose right now and some will pass the virus deliberately in the future. Because they want to save their families and the only way is to raise the public awareness through passing the virus.
Now, with my efforts, I see some hope, which is practical and in reach. It is moving forward. we are planing to form a committee to do more organized work, such as compile data, expose to more press/media, even demonstrate. people are fighting hard in China.