frickly, so sorry to hear about your daughter. i hope others don't mind if i throw out some weird vaccine stories, too. my 4 year old got a thirmerasol-free flu vax last year & immediately had a temp of 105 & an ear infection. i vaccinated her around 6 months w/ Dtap & continued for about a year to do IPV, Dtap, & HIB, then stopped. i didn't like what i saw: she had a cold that lasted a year; her temperament was irritable, etc. jump ahead to child #2: no vax at all, but played w/ her cousin who had just had his IPV or MMR in a baby pool, & swear to God, that vaccine shed & put her in the ICU w/ temp of 107. she was previously healthy. my story is worse: i've had CF since 1990 or 1993, but after a round of vaccines needed to work at a hospital, i was unable to walk. i immediately lost 15 pounds (went on to lose 5 more), all lymph nodes were inflamed, could not tolerate light/sound, etc.
important: i am not a doctor, but i act like one, Warbly512! i certainly hope not to offend anyone, especially if you count on vaccines to help keep you well. i just think they can't possibly be for everyone.