If you want people to understand the seriousness of this situation they must know the potential devastation it can cause. I cannot see how describing primarily the more benign manifestations serves anyone except those who wish to dismiss us.
There are people on this board who cannot speak, cannot walk, cannot think, cannot bathe, cannot eat...
I think addressing the needs of those people first is staying firmly grounded in reality. The rest of us, the walking wounded, can wait a little longer. The 25% cannot.
ETA I just had to come back to make clear that I think most people don't know about the 25% and I don't think the current CAA materials or strategy will change that.
I agree that the 25% sickest CFS patients are the invisible ones, my point is that everyone with CFS needs care and help and rather than shift to portray CFS as a bedridden level illness what we need is an honest presentation of CFS, how it exists at many levels, including severe and mild, and how no therapies are universally effective and also how physician practices and opinions about CFS are often wrong and abusive to patients. If we were to focus only on the 25% sickest, then physicians who thought that view was representative of ME/CFS would probably dismiss the other 75% as being 'mental', saying, 'well, you are not bedridden, so just take this antidepressant, and get some exercise and behavioral counseling'.
Kurt- I don't agree with the above. How is it unethical to focus on the 25% most disabled. I don't think they or the other 75% would object; instead, as Dr. Yes pointed out, it would benefit everyone. I don't think anyone is saying put a picture of someone in a hospital bed and then say this is the typical case. We would be explicit about it being 25% of patients. I think that picture, of Lynn G. is it (?), on the top of the 25% homepage should go on the top of the CAA website, perhaps in addition to the tired, but otherwise healthy looking people now pictured there. I really don't think there is the remotest danger of a focus on the most disabled resulting in society and physicians being duped into thinking ME is more disabling than it is as the Wessely school is now trying to claim.
I guess we disagree in part, I certainly would object if CFS was hijacked by any sub-group of patients because that could leave me and many others even more out in the cold. But I do agree with what you say about how CAA should portray CFS, they should show a variety of levels and absolutely MUST include some representation of the sickest cases if they want to make a difference. I totally agree that the image of a tired woman leaning on a man while standing on the beach on the home page is a misrepresentation of even a typical CFS case. Unless that woman lives in a tent on that beach perhaps...
Incidentally, I spent several years completely housebound, and went for months at a time mostly bedridden, so I do know how bad that is, not being able to think clearly beyond wondering if you will make it through the next night. My doctor had to make house calls (I was lucky to have a doctor then who would do that). But I have had CFS for over 10 years and that is just one face of this disease, even in an individual case. There were years where I could work 30 hours a week and was able to still support myself and my family even with my CFS, and there have been years of disability where I could not work, but was not necessarily housebound or bedridden. To represent the whole of CFS is definitely complicated and I am not surprised nobody has really succeeded yet.
I'm suggesting that our patient organization, the CAA, is the only organization that is in a position to change the public perception about ME/CFS, and that for whatever reason (and let's not keep arguing about this), they have not adequately represented us. Even you say they can do better. Can we put our heads together and come up with what can be done differently so that we change what is being heard, not just by us as patients, but by the community at large? At some point it no longer matters what is being said and being done, what matters is what is being communicated.
So are you suggesting a type of patient congress? Might be a good idea. We do not all have to agree on everything, but maybe if we found a few universal points that most patients agreed on perhaps we could have some influence.
Yes, CAA has not yet solved CFS, and maybe not dramatically changed the public perception of CFS. But also I am not certain anyone can accomplish either of those goals at this point. Maybe the question we should be asking is exactly how any group can make a real difference in CFS. What are the barriers to our progress? I would love to see a professional assessment of our image and how to make a change, who does that type of analysis?
I also blame the CAA for the maltreatment I've received from doctors and nurses and other medical staff who have told me that I'm either faking or that CFS is psychological.
I blame the CAA for the fact that after finally tracking down the best doctors I could find, these doctors still don't comprehend how severely CFS affects me.
I blame the CAA for the fact that every CFS patient I talk to says the same thing no matter where in the world they live.
I'm never going to feel good about the CAA nor ever support them until they remove their damaging medical educational materials.
Is CAA really responsible for the state of affairs in the CFS research and advocacy world? I thought it was CFS itself that was our nemesis. CAA can only be held responsible for their actions, not the actions of doctors, researchers and government officials, or the existence of a complicated disease that we may not even have the tools yet to solve.
Definitely CAA can and should be held responsible for any problems with their medical educational materials. But I would not hold them responsible for the actions of doctors who know how to read and have the ability to study up on CFS research if they want, if they actually cared enough. I hold those doctors responsible and if it were my choice I would take away the licence of every doctor who misses proper diagnosis and treats CFS patients with a cavalier attitude.
.The information given out by the CAA regarding CBT is plain wrong
Which information do you mean? Stating the research on CBT is not wrong information, they quote real studies. Rather, highlighting CBT the way they do without detailed warnings is what I would say is plain wrong. The overall positive tone of the Sparks website is what bothers me, that creates the wrong message, and even suggests most cases of CFS are treatable at some level. But in fact many patients get no relief from ANY of the treatments they try, and many more have no resources to even try anything, particularly in the US where poverty=no healthcare. The CDC website is more accurate in terms of the tone, pointing out the low recovery rate, etc. So I agree this is a problem CAA must address in their materials.
Asking me to do CBT is one thing, asking someone who's completely fallen apart is another. Its like swatting at an elephant with a fly swatter.
Ironically for myself I don't see any other options than 'behavioral/meditative" type stuff. I don't have the money to see and doctor or to do any treatment programs.
Cort, I love that image, I have had several doctors just tell me to use a bigger fly swatter for that elephant.
I have also ended up finding a few natural supplements and a few cognitive type therapies to be helpful, both for coping with CFS and also to help reduce general stress levels. Also a very low level of 'ungraded exercise' helps me, basically enough movement and low-level activity to keep the lymphatic circulation going. But never trying to increase beyond what I know I can tolerate. I tried gradual ('graded') increases once for about a year and that always led to crash, but I did find a certain level of activity I could tolerate, and that has been helpful. BUT, none of this goes beyond ordinary coping. So
these are not really treatments, they are coping strategies, to try to maintain some level of health in the middle of a disease. That is where I think CAA and some other CFS advocates and websites out there, particularly in the UK, have 'missed the boat.'
Coping strategies are not treatments.
I totally relate to your situation, maybe there are some good therapies out there, but I also have no resources for that any more, and medicare will not pay for anything other than standard 10 minute doctor breeze-through sessions where they ask questions to figure out if you need any of the drugs they like to prescribe. I have been on a waiting list for over a year for a good CFS doctor in my area, but never even hear back from them, although I call now and then. So all I have left are coping strategies.
IMO, if CAA wants to talk about GET/CBT and related therapies, that information should be put in a section for coping strategies, with a very strong, bold-faced warning included. Certainly not even hint that they are treatments for CFS.