hi, i seem to have caused a great deal of confusion. Sorry but because i'd been updating members privately who asked me to, i had failed to keep the forum up to date with my progress! I was struggling about 3 weeks after the process & could like i said have given up. Luckily i had a contact who was very supportive and gave me a phone number of a lady who used to be a LP trainer with Prof Findley (Gerri de vries), she doesn't teach the LP anymore but her own tweaked version. I was advised to speak to her on the phone as she had helped people who had done the LP but not quite got to where they wanted to be. She is lovely, really worth contacting for any of you who are interested. She helped me (for free) enormously and kept me going until i have now recovered. We decided between us to wait until my son (12yrs & dyslexic) is older and wiser. He clearly didn't understand he had to put any work/effort into the process to make it work (he admits that) & we are all absolutely fine with that.
I have made it clear to my trainer that i feel it's a bad idea to undertake the process with other family members incase it helps one and not the other. Gerri understands special needs in children aswell and
has been a lot more helpful. The original LP trainer spoke with Kieran on the phone before hand, but obviously not thoroughly enough. It was my fault really, we decided to do the LP a few days before our
holiday, i'd been recommended it by a mum who's 12 yr old recovered 4 yrs ago, she's a phone lady with the Tymes trust (ME childrens charity uk). Obviously the Tymes trust don't recommend any therapy,
i haven't spoken to my sons paeditrician yet as nothings changed for him. My trainer lost my faith when she said she'd worked with 3 & 4 yr olds, i have a 5 yr old and he certainly wouldn't of done the process.
To be honest all the comments back are quite confusing to me. I thought i was telling it as it was following the therapy, obviously it wasn't going to be a magic wand waved over 3 days and you don't need to do anything more. You do need to work at it. Bear in mind we'd also returned from a very hectic 2 week holiday in florida with jet lag etc to contend with, so it was no wonder i was feeling tired. I'm really pleased with my out come simple as that. I promise all of you that i've only spoken to people that have remained better 3yrs plus down the line. i hope to god that what some of you are suggesting doesn't happen to me regarding sudden collapse/relapse etc!
How could i of given a more honest view of this to you all. I'm a 44yr old, my son is 12, my daughter with ME 15yrs wouldn't do the process at all because of what she'd read on forums (she's been ill for 7yrs).
My son simply didn't do the process, it failed in that respect. We will try again when he is older.
Sorry again if i left some updates out on the forum, i appreciate it's terribly hard to understand how it could work, but it's simply turning off the stress response that is stuck on and causing all the symptoms, you are taught how to do that very effectively as far as i'm concerned. I know many of you will be reading this in the same way i used to read this sort of thing, but i simply got to the point i had to find out for myself.
Prof Findley who has the only ME hospital in the uk does the process on his patients all of the time. Both he and Gerri de vries were doing the LP trial a few years ago that never got puplished, the reason was that they fell oyut with each other
so it was purely a personal opinion.
Could I ask Coxy, please, when applying for LP "training" was your son expected to sign up to the beliefs and commitments as set out in the LP application form or were you asked to sign up on his behalf?
I don't know how old your son is, but do you think he understood what he was being asked to sign up to?
How did your "trainer/coach" (who is presumably not medically qualified):
Assess your son for his "readiness" to undertake the program.
Assess his medical condition to determine whether his illness might mean that he was not going to be "suitable" to undertake the program.
Was this done purely on the basis of the application form, or was this discussed with you and your son by the "trainer"?
Were you given any data or information sheets about children with "CFS/ME" and the suitability of children with "CFS/ME" for undergoing LP?
Did you discuss LP with your son's GP before signing up and have you discussed the outcome with your GP, since?
I don't ask these questions confrontationally, but I am genuinely interested to learn how LP "trainers" are assessing children with "CFS/ME" for their "suitability" for LP.
Suzy