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[/QUOTE]hi, i seem to have caused a great deal of confusion. Sorry but because i'd been updating members privately who asked me to, i had failed to keep the forum up to date with my progress! I was struggling about 3 weeks after the process & could like i said have given up. Luckily i had a contact who was very supportive and gave me a phone number of a lady who used to be a LP trainer with Prof Findley (Gerri de vries), she doesn't teach the LP anymore but her own tweaked version. I was advised to speak to her on the phone as she had helped people who had done the LP but not quite got to where they wanted to be. She is lovely, really worth contacting for any of you who are interested. She helped me (for free) enormously and kept me going until i have now recovered. We decided between us to wait until my son (12yrs & dyslexic) is older and wiser. He clearly didn't understand he had to put any work/effort into the process to make it work (he admits that) & we are all absolutely fine with that.
I have made it clear to my trainer that i feel it's a bad idea to undertake the process with other family members incase it helps one and not the other. Gerri understands special needs in children aswell and
has been a lot more helpful. The original LP trainer spoke with Kieran on the phone before hand, but obviously not thoroughly enough. It was my fault really, we decided to do the LP a few days before our
holiday, i'd been recommended it by a mum who's 12 yr old recovered 4 yrs ago, she's a phone lady with the Tymes trust (ME childrens charity uk). Obviously the Tymes trust don't recommend any therapy,
i haven't spoken to my sons paeditrician yet as nothings changed for him. My trainer lost my faith when she said she'd worked with 3 & 4 yr olds, i have a 5 yr old and he certainly wouldn't of done the process.
To be honest all the comments back are quite confusing to me. I thought i was telling it as it was following the therapy, obviously it wasn't going to be a magic wand waved over 3 days and you don't need to do anything more. You do need to work at it. Bear in mind we'd also returned from a very hectic 2 week holiday in florida with jet lag etc to contend with, so it was no wonder i was feeling tired. I'm really pleased with my out come simple as that. I promise all of you that i've only spoken to people that have remained better 3yrs plus down the line. i hope to god that what some of you are suggesting doesn't happen to me regarding sudden collapse/relapse etc!
How could i of given a more honest view of this to you all. I'm a 44yr old, my son is 12, my daughter with ME 15yrs wouldn't do the process at all because of what she'd read on forums (she's been ill for 7yrs).
My son simply didn't do the process, it failed in that respect. We will try again when he is older.
Sorry again if i left some updates out on the forum, i appreciate it's terribly hard to understand how it could work, but it's simply turning off the stress response that is stuck on and causing all the symptoms, you are taught how to do that very effectively as far as i'm concerned. I know many of you will be reading this in the same way i used to read this sort of thing, but i simply got to the point i had to find out for myself.
Prof Findley who has the only ME hospital in the uk does the process on his patients all of the time. Both he and Gerri de vries were doing the LP trial a few years ago that never got puplished, the reason was that they fell oyut with each other
so it was purely a personal opinion.
Could I ask Coxy, please, when applying for LP "training" was your son expected to sign up to the beliefs and commitments as set out in the LP application form or were you asked to sign up on his behalf?
I don't know how old your son is, but do you think he understood what he was being asked to sign up to?
How did your "trainer/coach" (who is presumably not medically qualified):
Assess your son for his "readiness" to undertake the program.
Assess his medical condition to determine whether his illness might mean that he was not going to be "suitable" to undertake the program.
Was this done purely on the basis of the application form, or was this discussed with you and your son by the "trainer"?
Were you given any data or information sheets about children with "CFS/ME" and the suitability of children with "CFS/ME" for undergoing LP?
Did you discuss LP with your son's GP before signing up and have you discussed the outcome with your GP, since?
I don't ask these questions confrontationally, but I am genuinely interested to learn how LP "trainers" are assessing children with "CFS/ME" for their "suitability" for LP.
Suzy
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with respect I don,t know of any ME patient who could undertake a hectic two week holiday in Florida
Prof Findley who has the only ME hospital in the uk does the process on his patients all of the time. Both he and Gerri de vries were doing the LP trial a few years ago that never got puplished, the reason was that they fell oyut with each other
so it was purely a personal opinion.
[/QUOTE]with respect i don't know why 2 children with ME would practically miss out on school all together, miss out on friends, sit about at home bored stiff just for the fun of it. i know plenty of me sufferers who have holidays in their own way i.e with support (we had our entire extended family with us to help)
with respect I don,t know of any ME patient who could undertake a hectic two week holiday in Florida
I, and others I know, have had many periods of relative remission where active holidays can be pursued. Last year I spent two weeks in Italy and did lots of walking - one day I walked 6 miles. I'm lucky I know.
But then I get severe relapses where I'm bedridden for months and can only walk a few steps. These relapses aren't linked to any over exertion.
Jenny
Answering something from a few pages ago
Bob and Mithriel and all, just to explain my comments. I would not have written my post the way that I had, only I thought Coxy had given Bob, and potentially others, the impression that people had been having a go at her for saying LP had worked for her. I did not see any evidence of this on the thread where she was talking about doing LP, and thought this misperception (as I see it) should be challenged. I felt Coxy's post was very negative towards members of this forum (and this was not the first time I felt she had been negative in this way, I let it go the last few times I saw it).
I do not feel that I was making personal comments about anyone in my post, but sometimes it is impossible to engage in meaningful debate without referring to people's specific points, or just explaining what post or point is being replied to. If people post openly here people are allowed to disagree.
I deliberately had avoided any detailed critique of Coxy's reply, but I can see that was a mistake, as my comments may have looked like throwaway remarks. I do admit that as I was making some specific comments about what she had said, as well as some very general ones, so it might have been confusing.
I have already explained the suspending criticial judgement comment, and why I think it is of general importance in the debate, so I will focus on the rest.
Coxy may have given the impression that people had made abusive comments to her (strictly speaking if you read her post carefully she does not say this, but the post might give a reader that impression).
She did say:
I did not see anyone make personall abusive, or even particularly negative, comments to Coxy on the thread she started, http://www.forums.aboutmecfs.org/sh...iving-the-lightning-process-a-go-on-this-week
I thought people were bending over backwards to be sympathetic and friendly, including those who thought LP was nonsense. But people did make some humorous comments about Phil Parker and LP. But it was all done in the spirit of good humour and not directed at Coxy. She may have found this upsetting, but they could not be considered abusive.
Coxy also wrote:
I did not see any abuse here, maybe she is talking about elsewhere? But if so, she should have made this clear.
As it happens, in her last entry on this thread she had actually given the impression that she was worse and not better after LP. So there was no question of criticising her for saying it worked, as the situation had not arisen, in terms of what she had posted (unless she posted something else on some other thread I did not see).
This is a link to the last post by her
OK back to this thread:
Some of us have learned quite a but about it since it hit the scene. Please do not assume we know nothing about it just because we have not done it. As I said before, we do not have to stick our hands in the fire to know that it is a bad idea. Some of us feel a sense of responsibility to warn others of the potential dangers of it. It also affects us all if the world at large think a 3 day "changing your thoughts" course can cure one of ME/CFS, as Ellen from Norway has pointed out.
http://www.forums.aboutmecfs.org/sh...ightning-Process&p=76339&viewfull=1#post76339
"Jibes" at LP, or criticisms of it, are not Jibes at anyone desperate enough to do it. I don't see the point in geting too upset at criticisms of a therapy. People criticise, or criticially analyse, all sorts of therapies, and rightly so. People don't have to read the criticisms if they don't want to.
Orla
So I think in the light of the Esther Crawley child study and Coxys sons documented experience we are perfectly justified in questioning this whole matter. Secondly Coxy claims to have picked up from the failure of the LP course by engaging in "telephone support" from "not LP trainer support i might add".
My concern here is that if we are not careful with our words and our language, then we turn against each other rather than support each other on the forum...
I know that we strongly and passionately disagree with certain views about LP... but what I have clearly said all along, is that I believe we should address the issues surrounding LP and not the personal stories...
Some of you obviously don't agree with me, but I will continue argue that we keep this non-personal.
I know that is difficult not to address the personal stories when they are put in front of us, but I personally believe that we should continuously argue against LP by addressing the scientific issues, and not the personal stories of recovery.
Bob
PEM is characteristic of the illness.If in remission there is no need for LP of course
Not sure what point you're making about PEM, Gerwyn. When I'm in a relative remission I don't get PEM. When I'm in a relapse I do.
I was just saying that there are plenty of ME sufferers who can sometimes cope with active holidays.
Jenny
I also would not equate a subjective increase in quality of life or happiness to claims of recovery from ME/CFS.
I cannot equate my disbelief in any recovery due to LP training with someone not believing in the existence of ME. ME has had a medical and legal description, verified by scientists, and published by the WHO, for decades. Anyone who denies this is denying proven facts. This cannot be said of the LP training. I can see where it might help someone who is depressed or in the habit of thinking poorly of themselves or thinking pessimistically. As I'm sure you know, there are elements which have tried to include those persons in their definitions of ME/CFS, but we on the PR forum have not been deceived into thinking that we are merely depressed and thinking badly, nor have we been deceived into thinking these very real problems should be included in the definition of ME/CFS, Reeves and SW notwithstanding.
I find it a little troubling that you have insisted that the "recovery" be taken at face value
... but have not addressed my concern that saying they have recovered even when they have not is a PART of the LP training program.
This, IMO, is enabling behavior, which is not good for them and certainly would be false of me to pretend I believe it when I don't.
I am dead serious when I say that cooperating with the practice of "fake it until you make it", when it comes to ME/CFS, is not good for such patients. (I doubt it is good for a lot of the sick people the LP claims to cure, but that would be another thread.) It could even kill someone, and already has caused permanent or long term damage to some.
This is the same thing as the exercise advocates telling people to "push through" their exhaustion and pain. If you have been following the threads on that subject, you will already know that that advice is contraindicated in this disease. So I do not only see LP as a ripoff and a fraud, I also see it as dangerous to some. This snake oil has some venom in it, for some.
You ask if we have a right to disbelieve people who have "experienced" a recovery. Not only do we have a right when the "treatment" calls itself a "training" in order to avoid scrutiny as a bona fide treatment, we have, IMO, a duty to disbelieve such a recovery. It is not so much disbelieving the person as it is believing in acknowledging that ME/CFS is a physical illness, not subject to erasing it by disbelieving it. LP is nothing more than a very expensive course in "changing false illness beliefs" and it should be outed as such. I wouldn't cooperate with anyone claiming that CBT rid them of mitochondrial damage, HPA axis imbalance, PEM, brain damage, MCS, EBV, etc., so why would I accomodate the same garbage from LP?
with respect I don,t know of any ME patient who could undertake a hectic two week holiday in Florida
Hi Bob,
One of the scientific issues is diagnosis who made it and according to what criterea to exclude overlapping conditions.not everyone given a diagnosis of ME/cfs actually has the disease in any mind independent sense.CFS is merely a lable and not a diagnosis.the other is ojective measurement at baseline and after treatment. I agree that personal criticism should be avoided.That does not mean however that anecdotal accounts should not be challenged.i think that there is too much at stake to do otherwise given the power of the psych lobby