.....I swear that this wasn't a direct response to your statement, but was mean for everyone, myself included. I feel that what works for one person, isn't necessarily the answer for others.
Should we try different things....absolutely, but we're not failures because they don't work and perhaps others don't realize that we understand that outlook. I really don't know.
If something works for you, fine....I'm truly glad. If it doesn't, catch your breath for a time and then move to something else. Sometimes there simply aren't any answers.
No, I definitely wasn't directing this to you personally. Perhaps I should just keep my thoughts to myself. Some-times being helpful can be totally misconstrued. Having to write something is definitely not the same as a conversation, person to person. I'm sorry that you feel the way you do. If anything, I was agreeing with you. Yours, Lenora