southwestforests
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While I'm in a "that brings to mind ..." mood, that brings to mind my Dad getting ME/CFS then me getting it about 23 years later.And this doesn't explain how all the people (including me) who got ill before there was any real information about ME/CFS on-line, still managed to come up with the exact same delusion even without reinforcement from others - it's astounding!![]()
Back then my line of thought was that it wasn't going to be something I would get since with me not being in the military I didn't go to Vietnam, didn't go to other foreign countries, didn't get dozens of mystery vaccinations before going those places, didn't spend literally 13 years of my 28 year career at sea on ships which reeked of fuel oil and paint thinner.
Dad was the only person I had contact with who had this.
Of course other people existed, somewhere, with it since it was an officially listed diagnosis.
They were not in my life, not in my world.
Besides, ME/CFS is something my military veteran Dad has, I'm not a veteran, I won't get it.
Now, true, my health had been imperfect since birth, but so what, nothing is perfect in this world.
And in another 'now, true', true, all you have is my word for it, but when my health crashed bigtime December 2005, ME/CFS was not in my thoughts, as far as my brain got was something like, this ain't right, this is a problem, what's going on? how do we find out? how do we fix it?
ME/CFS was not in my mind when diagnosis was delivered in spring 2006, like how autism wasn't in my mind when that diagnosis was delivered in 2009.
ME/CFS was merely something Dad had. Autism was merely something heard about once every several years.
But when diagnosis was given, there was a "ya know, now that we're looking at it this has been happening for a while". True, far, far, longer with autism than with ME/CFS.
But it looked like ME/CFS may have been building for several years without me knowing about it.
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