I would be kickboxing again at the gym, taking vacations with all the money I made (instead of lost) over the years, and raising the 2-3 kids that I originally planned on having before illness took over.
It's hard to think about all these losses sometimes, but they are a reality for so many of us. If nothing else, chronic illness has given me so much empathy and compassion - even for those not in the same situation as me - I have new "eyes" and a renewed zeal to make good use of my time and the energy I do have!