obviously we DID evolve to fit roles in our ancestors lifestyles over vast time
but, Humans are a *spectrum*, in all ways, we just have potential predispositions is all
Men are larger, have better hand eye coordination, have more tendency to psychopathic *traits*, because that was good for our ancestors way of life.
Men were indeed "spear chuckers", please note that psychopathic traits in small doses, were good for our ancestors: fearlessness, risk taking, promiscuity, long as it didn't go too far into outright sociopathy or psychopathy, those were useful, such men would jump in front of a mammoth to save others, explore dangerous areas, mate with varying women for genetic diversity and widows etc.
however, I believe when Humankind settled down, psychopaths got unchained, tribes would probably kill or exile such folk, and most are result of childhood abuse, a thing more common in cities because its easily hid etc etc
women have much stronger immune systems to protect child bearers who're essential for the tribe, men can impregnate many women so loss of a man is no big deal, evolution wise, hence men are also far more genetically variable, men are more likely to be morons or geniuses, women are more likely to be around norms and have stable personalities
women usually would be the core of the group, men ranged and guarded, women crafted and had huge role in running the tribe, men form quick pecking orders which are good for hunting/exploring, but bad for mediation or working out more complex problems
burdened by childcare and crafting/running things, women got better at multitasking, men, doing single tasks which were often dangerous, got very single minded.
that is simple logic backed by fact, but, again, it is a
spectrum, people vary very much in all ways.
problem is our bloody societies are so crap and I believe, warped to fit the desires of psychopaths who've been our rulers too often, that divergence wasn't accepted and the "rule of the strong" became normal which is very bad for everyone.
I don't care who leads, long as they ain't a scumbag, pig-headed or stupid: boobs or balls, big deal