Sounds like SaveMe needs some perspective. And maybe B vitamins, magnesium, etc.
This topic comes up on the forum now and then. Everyone dies eventually. CFS patients fare about as well as other neurological or GI disease patients, or diabetics, I recall reading somewhere that we live 10 years shorter than the average lifespan. And those patients who die younger are mostly patients who have something else besides CFS. There are young people who die every day of various causes, I knew one young man in his 20s who died of CFS, it was tragic, he had a reaction to going off a drug, and that probably killed him. But then I also have known young people who died of other causes, usually car or airplane accidents. More of my own younger friends over the years have died from accident than from disease, and that includes CFS patients I know. And I know people with CFS who are in their 60s and 70s. I am in my early 50s and have had CFS for 15 years now, and hope that the cure is found soon. But if not, there is really nothing I can do about it, so I keep working for a cure and hope for the best. Life will last as long as it lasts...
The anxiety about everything in life is worse with unsuccessfully treated CFS. A multi-B12 therapy has dramatically lowered my anxiety levels. I think the real issue here is untreated anxiety and not the death rate of disease patients. Remember that people who are advocating for CFS politically must make CFS sound bad, and CFS is a bad illness to have. But while some CFS patients die younger than they should, that is not very many, certainly not a majority. People are not dying from CFS in large numbers. CFS is mostly a disabling disease.
My suggestion is to take a deep breath and be glad that while we do have a chronic illness, at least it is one that gives us some time.
Just a thought, spending too much time reading through the memorial pages sounds like a bad idea for some patients... Personally I don't read that stuff anymore, and try to spend my time understanding methylation, learning about how to fix my gut, things I can do something about.