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Hi. I'm posting this in behalf of my son, who I look after (CFS since June 2001 at age 13).
We all know how hard it is to *really* convey symptoms to people like doctors etc. Over the last 18 months my son has struggled to help me really understand one of his symptoms - now his most limiting one. After many, many discussions he thinks he's figured out the language to convey it.
I am posting here in case anyone identifies with it. Please comment if you do.
The thing that prevents him doing "stuff" more than tiredness or pain or anything is a "shock" effect, like you would experience taking a cold shower. In fact, that's how he worked it out. One day he took a cold shower just to see what it would do. When stepping into it he had that cold water shock effect.
He came to me and said that the sensation was identical to the effect he had been trying so hard to explain to me. It happens to him constantly but fluctuates like the other symptoms (pain, tiredness etc). It is more likely to come from something that involves thinking. Like reading a book. Or listening to new music of a type he likes. When at it's very worst he is almost paralyzed by it as even simple things start giving him this mental shock. eg. Changing a volume knob, eating what is on his tray in front of him, walking outside. It is always there to some level, not always to this extreme.
When it is really bad his only defense is to numb his mind and do something familiar and mind numbing. When most sensitive he has to stay away from anything new even different food. When I take him for drive I can't go to an unfamilair area.
He describes it as "attacking his brain" and has wondered whether it is something outside his CFS. But it correlates too closely with other symptoms and triggers to be something else.
Does anyone else identify with this?
Peter W
Melbourne, Australia
We all know how hard it is to *really* convey symptoms to people like doctors etc. Over the last 18 months my son has struggled to help me really understand one of his symptoms - now his most limiting one. After many, many discussions he thinks he's figured out the language to convey it.
I am posting here in case anyone identifies with it. Please comment if you do.
The thing that prevents him doing "stuff" more than tiredness or pain or anything is a "shock" effect, like you would experience taking a cold shower. In fact, that's how he worked it out. One day he took a cold shower just to see what it would do. When stepping into it he had that cold water shock effect.
He came to me and said that the sensation was identical to the effect he had been trying so hard to explain to me. It happens to him constantly but fluctuates like the other symptoms (pain, tiredness etc). It is more likely to come from something that involves thinking. Like reading a book. Or listening to new music of a type he likes. When at it's very worst he is almost paralyzed by it as even simple things start giving him this mental shock. eg. Changing a volume knob, eating what is on his tray in front of him, walking outside. It is always there to some level, not always to this extreme.
When it is really bad his only defense is to numb his mind and do something familiar and mind numbing. When most sensitive he has to stay away from anything new even different food. When I take him for drive I can't go to an unfamilair area.
He describes it as "attacking his brain" and has wondered whether it is something outside his CFS. But it correlates too closely with other symptoms and triggers to be something else.
Does anyone else identify with this?
Peter W
Melbourne, Australia