I told my husband yesterday that IF today's Rheumatology doctor says anything negative about CFIDS, as in "I don't believe in CFIDS", then I am prepared to look at him and say, "I don't believe in you", get up and walk out. Then ensure that the front desk understands that I am going to contact the insurance company and tell them NOT to pay any bills coming from this doctor. My sister was so enraged by an office visit where there was NOT a doctor in the office but rather a Physician's Assistant (PA, getting too common in the US), so she told the front desk she would not pay and that she would (and did) call the insurance company and told them not to pay since there was no doctor. My husband got a little nervous by this possible scene and tried to get me to remember that I have waited for nearly a year to get to a Rheum since I do have arthritis symptoms on top of the CFIDS/FM so I had better be quiet and not try to fight everyone all the time about CFIDS.
I have waited almost a year to get into a Rheum in this area where we have a very high percetntage of elderly (over 70), but my CFIDS/FM is so much a part of my body's disease process that a Rheum must understand how CFIDS/FM interact and play upon the protocol, medications given, etc. Many of the meds used for RA dampen/decrease the body's immune system. Well, my immune system burned itself out several years after being super UP-regulated and now I get everything (infections/viruses) out there since NO real immune system. So, I can't be put on the typical Arthritis meds. Doesn't leave much in the med area for me.
And I am wandering again...No longer do I put up with any comments from anyone about CFIDS not being real or being part of a depression, etc. I'm quick with the "I have CFIDS and it is very real and affects the brain, multi-systems, etc." and then I get the open mouth response from the other person. I just won't be demeaned anymore from anyone - and esp. doctors. Again, remember WE pay those doctors - they WORK FOR US. And in the UK, your taxes pay for your doctors, so don't let them get away with the nasty, demeaning comments. Stinks we must correct and educated - get's old fast. But, IF we don't undo the damage by Reeves/Wessely then HOW will that damage be undone? Amazes me just how stupid doctors are that they listen to the CDC and don't bother to read the 6,000 plus research documents out there or even look at a CFIDS/ME person.