The first pain medicine doctor I saw gave me a little education on managing pain. In short, he said, the more pain you have, the more pain you will have (very simplified). Something about once the pain (nerve) pathways are sensitized, you become more sensitive to the pain. So, his recommendation was to keep pain in check - that could include activity modification, stretching, and/or pain medication, or whatever works for you. Conversely, he said, the less pain you have, the easier it will be to control pain in the long run.
So trying to tough it out is not good. My own thoughts go like this: Am I at the white knuckle point? (The point at which I am mentally tense about it.) Is the pain making it hard for me to concentrate on reading or watching TV? On my own scale of 1 to 10, is the pain about a 6? If I can answer yes to these questions, then I think it's time to take one Vicodin.
I record the time I take the Vicodin to the nearest hour. Then I try to find some mental activity for the next hour or so. I allow myself to have one Vicodin at the most every 2 hours (90 minutes for the first interval), up to 4 times a day. If I take one Vicodin at 2:00, then I can have another one at 4:00, if I feel I need it, but not before. This has worked out well for me. Keep in mind, I take one morphine tablet at the same time every day, so the Vicodin is for breakthrough pain. I only allow myself to think of taking additional doses once an hour, at the top of the hour.
Example: If I take my first dose of Vicodin at 1:15, then I won't consider taking another dose until 3:00. At 3:00 I ask myself if I can get through the next hour without another dose. If I can wait, then I won't think about it again at 4:00.
Before the pain meds kick in, sometimes I find that distraction helps, but it's got to be something that uses a lot of brain cells and concentration, not something as passive as watching TV. For example, I find that working on a hobby will get me through the first 60-90 minutes of waiting for Vicodin to start working. It takes energy to focus, but I can rest and stop working on the hobby once the Vicodin kicks in. I DON'T find that distraction is a substitute for drugs, because the pain I have will eventually worsen unless I treat it with medication.
One important goal I have is to keep pain from interfering with sleep. In an average month, pain will interfere with sleep one-third of the time. I count how many days I took pain medication at midnight or later. My doctor tried to lower my morphine dose so that I wasn't taking it every day. When that happened, my Vicodin use increased, and there were more nights when I was taking pain medication at midnight or later. I showed this to my doctor and he put me back on a daily dose of morphine.
I chart my medications so that it's all on one piece of paper; I showed this to my doctor and he likes my system. I've attached a blank chart so you can see what I use. Each day of the month has one column.