If only it was so simple. From what I read: for FTM to even work, the donor needs to be healthy with no health conditions and no history of antibiotic use. If the donor is prone to overweight, you may make yourself prone to overweight too after FMT. Children aged 3-5 are the best (from what I read).
This requirements rules out everyone from my friends and family, trying to find someone online for this is sketchy, if you ask directly for donors, the person could just lie about their health/antibiotic use.
Building relationship with someone to just later ask for their poop is unorthodox to say the least, feels like a recipe for failure if you're trying to do this while being sick with ME/CFS.
Oh yea, I also heard that the donor needs to be on a special diet for it to work, no? don't remember the details thou.