jesse's mom
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I went through lots of this for a while. Thankfully my husband went and got psychological help after about the 4th or 5th year of my being sick. It took my mom years of blaming me and thinking it was self pity and my own fault. It was a horrible time!
I think it is horrendous how he is handling this! Making fun of a sick person is wrong on so many levels. The stress can make you even sicker!
I agree that you need to really dig your heels in and don't leave. Let him leave you! I might consult a divorce attorney and see what a divorce would cost him financially. Sometimes when people see things in black and white their attitudes change. I would immobilize your army of friends and get them to help you emotionally and with finding the very best divorce lawyer in your area. This is actually what got my husband's attention. They hate to get hit in the checkbook!
Have you got your Drs records and has a Dr stated that you are disabled?
Is @Gingergrrl aware of this situation? She may have time to weigh in with information and strength.
I think it is horrendous how he is handling this! Making fun of a sick person is wrong on so many levels. The stress can make you even sicker!
I agree that you need to really dig your heels in and don't leave. Let him leave you! I might consult a divorce attorney and see what a divorce would cost him financially. Sometimes when people see things in black and white their attitudes change. I would immobilize your army of friends and get them to help you emotionally and with finding the very best divorce lawyer in your area. This is actually what got my husband's attention. They hate to get hit in the checkbook!
Have you got your Drs records and has a Dr stated that you are disabled?
Is @Gingergrrl aware of this situation? She may have time to weigh in with information and strength.
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