I have PEM. Just because I don't know a trendy name for it, means nothing.
It is not my intention to suggest that there is a clear cut limit to how much people can do while still claiming to have PEM. But in the
weight loss thread, you mention being extremely active - walking, jogging, and cycling, exercising for 45 minutes, and 25 mile bike rides. When you mention your limitations in these activities (not being able to ride 100 mile marathons any more, etc), you attribute your limitations to anemia and blood sugar.
I am not saying that your lack of PEM makes you less worthwhile than anyone else, but I do think it is important to avoid an incorrect self-diagnosis. If you do have ME/CFS, then these intense workouts could be dangerous and might be better off avoided in exchange for lower-impact activities spread out in smaller chunks. But if you don't have ME/CFS, then you'd be missing out on a lot of beneficial activities by limiting yourself in that way.
Similarly, advice you give to others should take those differences into account. When ME/CFS is equated with anemia and hypoglycemia, it is feasible that good advice for anemia and hypoglycemia would be harmful for people with ME/CFS. It's not a matter of one disease being more worthy than the others - it's just a practical matter of giving advice that is appropriate to the disease being discussed. And at an ME/CFS forum, the disease being discussed is ME/CFS.
I have seen your studies run by Rich and the people in your stsudies have the same genetic defects as me but only A THIRD of them.
Perhaps this is an indication that you have a different condition than the rest of us. I also find it a bit odd that you question the existence of ME/CFS as a distinct disease and deny that there is a test for diagnosing it, yet persist in believing you have it based solely on genetic markers. Most, if not all of us with ME/CFS, were once healthy, yet still had the same genes prior to being ill that we do now. But we didn't have ME/CFS then, despite potentially having a predisposition to developing it.
I also see that a lot of you may function at a 2, but a lot of u (apologies to the lot for whom this is not true becuz I get your fear and live with it myself), find that u r ok with that if u are on disability and have few responsibilities so u find life peaceful, and you snuggle in with your hubbies and bf's and you have people in your life to cuddle and share with who actually know all how broken u are and love u anyway.
I think this is an extremely insulting sentiment. NO ONE here wants to remain severely disabled, even when financial and emotional support is available. In many cases that support is not available, and people suffer grievously and do everything they can to try to recover. And when that support is available, life is still extremely unpleasant compared to what it was before. Most, if not all of us, have tried very many supplements, vitamins, hormones, drugs, etc, in an attempt to improve our situation.
I would trade my life for yours. I guarantee in 2 months I would take your life and be a 7 or 8 struggling, and you would be whatever u r now or worse because 18 genes r pretty hard to figure out (and Yasko doesn't know enough to do it yet).
This is again quite insulting to myself and others that are working very hard to improve ourselves.
Tania, i dont care what u say there is no doctor going to diagnose CFS when u have that. It's just not happening. And now, I am more likely to get diagnosed autistic, another label that doesn't help anything. What is the payback getting these labels? If u r going to file disability, I can see it. I can't do that. In order to do that I would, as I said, have to get a pacemake in only days. I would be totally broken and maybe could not recover.
It's not about seeking labels to get benefits. It's about getting a correct diagnosis so we can understand the problem we're having and seek appropriate help.