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Dr.Patient, Most physicians are actually telling patients that they
should exercise. My cardiologist wanted me to see an infectious disease specialist a few months ago (b/c she fully supports my CFS diagnosis but doesn't know how to treat it.) I had a whole list of questions and planned to ask the ID specialist about Valtrex for treating EBV versus natural anti-virals.
He proceeded to tell me that CFS did not exist, that re-activated or chronic EBV did not exist, and that I needed to exercise. I had my blood test results with sky high EBV titers (IgG, IgM and Early Antigen) which should not have all been high since I had mono two years ago. He would not even look at my papers.
My HR just walking slowly from my car to his office was at 148 on my HR monitor and I asked him how I was supposed to exercise? He had no alternate diagnosis for my symptoms (since he said CFS did not exist) and dismissed that my cardiologist, endo, and naturopath had all independently given me this diagnosis.
He thought I was "seeking" Valtrex which I absolutely was not. I was actually scared of the anti-virals and just wanted his opinion on it as a treatment for EBV but what I got was the most condescending, patronizing speech of my life about exercise as the cure. I left his office in tears, more hopeless than I had ever felt and obviously never went back.
I wondered if I were a man or if my husband had been with me, would he have spoken to me that way?