I was very struck by Dr Chia's remarks about the differences in remission and relapse rates between men and women. He sees men needing less treatment and bouncing back harder with fewer relapses than with women.
Looking forward to more snippets from Dr Chia - shame the nuggets are so small!
Justy.
That is interesting Justy, As you know i certainly changed the level of illness i had quite dramatically. so much so, that when a patient reaches that level of improvement, it becomes suspect that he even had ME/CFS to start with. All i know is i had two shrinks diagnose cfs (one was wessley. No Shrink in the uk will put ME its cffs to them ) one consultant agreed it was like ME/CFS.
I certainly had the classic signs. starting with flu like symptoms. the progressing to constant illness. PEM was hard to judge. because i was ill nearly all the time. with just 2 or 3 days before the next bad wave hit.. but i certainly did seem to react to excercise.
.still have many echos of the past still in me. But a far cry from those horrible times. Though i just developed a abcess where the sun dont shine lol. had surgary to drain it. things have been tough the last couple of weeks. there now suspecting Crohns disease. But its uncertian yet.
I wonder what the cause of ME really is. will there be a unifying reason that will show most patients have a similar disease reason. I think this unlikely. though i know that view might be unpopular. And might be completely wrong anyway.
But the diverse, symptoms and severity, and outcome, and even the huge differences in onset, symptoms. suggests to me. we may not all be suffereing the same condition at all.
I know PEM and the other classic signs are used as a strong guide. But thats not a bio marker, its a guide, that can have many different reasons, and possibly confusions masking what really is happening, in different patients.
presenting with different symptoms. severity, onset type. remission relapse pattens.
The only thing i see as concrete, that unites many patients. is some kind of viral infection. starting the ball rolling. even then thats not always true for everyone ? I know PEM is seen as specific to ME. but as mentioned earlier. that may or may not turn out to be true for all patients. As i seemed to suffer PEM, yet i recovered more than most d

ver a long period of time.
The Flu that started my ME, was exactly like flu. aches pains fever cough ect. yet no one in my family ever caught it.
Now thats not only weird. It proves how similar symptoms can be shared across very different illnesses
So to say i have ME because of this or that symptom. might be like saying i have flu, because of aches and fever.
well i have found that may not be the case at all.
. 10 people can have the same or similar symptoms. but its intirely possible for 10 diffrent reasons
I wonder if the experts will find men, can make much fuller recoverys than women. if so. i wonder why ?
I know i always give questions. Not answers. Another thing i notice a lot, is that what seems to help one patient, often does not help another, i read constantly on here, i tried this treatment, and i am much better, and then 10 replys saying, i tried that and it didnt work for me ? or it made me worse, Boy have i seen that as a pattern
Theres even some quite wacky treatments, that some patients claim has helped them a lot.while others say it doesnt do a thing ?
I know we are not all the same
.Though.often with the same disease ( lets say a different disease to ME/CFS ). many patients respond to similar treatments fairly consistently. I ceritanly get the feeling much more consistently than with ME/CFS. what this means is hard to tell. other than. ME/CFS is a lot more complex than we can ever imagine.
Its also a reason for dis beleif amongst different health proffesionals i am sure. As most like things to be nice and clear cut. But it seems no matter how people try. ME/CFS does not like to be pidgeon holed, as much as other condtions. its much more diverse. Often contradictory. and quite confusing in many ways in my opinion.
Sometimes i think its a throw away diagnosis. it actually doessnt exist. and will not be unified across all patients. There may well be similar dysfunctions happening to a lot of patients, producing similar symptoms. but with diffrent onsets, different reasons, different outsets.Though at this stage. its possible auto immunity, may produce these very diverse and contradictory things.in which case. its not really ME/CFS its auto immunity. producing a wide range of variations amongst patients. I suspect a lot wont agree with much of what i am saying here ? some may get defensive. its hard living with a unceratin illness. its much nicer to have a name to put to it. Ive always hated the name. and never fully understood all the contradictions. that surely others notice on here ? But a illness or illnesses does unite us all. but how closely i sometimes wonder ?