It is quite normal for doctors to take it upon themselves to treat CFS patients with 'positive' thinking, 'reassurance' and exaggerated claims about the understanding they have of CFS and the efficacy of treatments.... makes it harder to then also accept that there is little money being spent on trying to really understanding the cause of one's health problems.
Also, funding for ME/CFS is low when compared to other conditions with equivalent economic impact or effect on QOL.
Yes, I think there is every reason to be frustrated with the common practice of doctors assuming that they know all there is to know about a disease - that they 'understand' it when in fact they have no explanation available at all. That is worth trying to change, but maybe the interesting question is how you change it - how did other people make that sort of change for other diseases? - because the same problem applied to them once.
When I got interested in rheumatoid arthritis as a student (1973) I was the only one in my year remotely interested in the disease. RA was understood to be a chronic incurable illness - so it was incurable wasn't it? Even after I presented my first work on rituximab (2000) a colleague who probably considered himself eminent stood up and said he did not think we should be trying to cure RA. We still do not have a permanent cure but most patients are treated very effectively - the transformation, particularly for young adults and children, has been amazing.
There has never been any significant government funding for RA research in the UK. It is an illusion that our society has a system for paying people to research into diseases on a systematic basis. If anything we seem to be electing governments that feel that it is none of their business. But that may not matter. Research in RA in the UK was driven by two forces. One was originally called the Heberden Society, the other the Arthritis and Rheumatism Council. The Heberden Society was a group of interested doctors who had small meetings (I think there were just six 10 minute papers on original research at my first meeting, a smaller affair than the recent IiME meeting) and exchanged novel ideas. The ARC was a charity that encouraged universities to appoint such doctors to academic positions to do research. They paid for setting up almost everything although the universities took over a lot of funding because the academics were useful for teaching and also proved to be productive in research terms.
So I think what is needed is a small group of doctors and scientists genuinely interested in understanding the disease and charitable support - the two will feed off each other and grow. As I see it that has already started. The problem has in the past been not having a reproducible phenomenon, like an autoantibody, that encourages scientists to stick with the intellectual challenge of working out what is going on. I suspect we are quite close to getting something reproducible, so that's why I am optimistic.