@szenn , thanks for popping back in to give us all an update - I have often wondered how you are getting on. My daughter has also been diagnosed with Lyme, but because she was pregnant there has been no treatment. Also she cant afford it and is breastfeeding right now so... we can only just about afford my treatment and as I am more ill and started seeing KDM first I continue limping along financially.
I would like to add that I have improved a little with treatment - although due to the complex nature and length of my illness it is painfully slow and I am sure big improvements will take years of treatment. I have developed MCAS so this makes treatment VERY hard.
BUT, even with the MCAS I have moved from mainly in bed to mainly up and about. Still housebpound, still suing my wheelchair outside, but I can cook nearly every day for my family, study, do some light housework - even a little vaccuming occasionally and 15 minutes light gardening every few weeks or so. This is back to the level I was at about 4 years ago.
Just got back from the clinic, and always feel hopeful as so many of his patients I cant to there have improvements - one guy last week was now driving himself to the clinic (200km), another was back part time at uni and out of a wheelchair. BUT most people seem to have improvements but haven't seen full remissions yet - although maybe those people don't go to the clinic anymore so we cant meet them!
My husband has been sick and KDM will do some testing next time we can afford it - he says 1 in 5 of the couples he sees the partner becomes sick...could be opening a can of worms - we have three other children too.