I just ran into this again. This time I was too mentally confused, constant brain fog and whiny, by the infection to recognize it. I suspect more people have this reaction than they or their doctors recognize.
For me frequent urination, leaking or impeded urination are all easy to miss signs that I have a uti or a kidney stone. Small stones aren't always painful so I forget to look for a uti.
They can get stuck anywhere along the urinary tract too. My last one was stuck in my urethra making it difficult but not impossible to urinate.
I'd try drinking several glasses of diluted 100% cranberry juice
1/2 water 1/2 cranberry juice as quickly as possible to see if it helps. The goal is to fill your bladder and then continue to rinse your urinary tract to remove most, all?, of the e coli. This is important.
I'll typically drink 32 oz of cranberry juice the first day then 16 on the second day. Followed by 8+ oz till symptom free.
Follow this with raw garlic or other natural antibiotics.
In my experience, doing this has stopped all urinary symptoms, including leakage within the first day or 2. Depending on the level of infection or if there's a stone stuck somewhere, treatment may take a couple of weeks before I feel healthy again. Or stones may need to be removed by other means.
I found the low oxalate diet is imperative for me. Drinking fluids helps too but eating or drinking high oxalate foods always triggers a stone. My understanding is that oxalate problems are common for anyone with leaky gut.
Tc .. x