Thank you for your kind words in reference to our role on the Baldwin Case. It was a difficult case it took months to get it resolved. It was such a frustrating time for all concerned. But I am glad Ryan is home now safe and sound. Yet their plight continues. How do you make a family, who has suffered so much whole? It will take a long time before their healing process is done.
You pose a very good question about how do we gather financial resources to move the overall cause forward. I can tell you that PANDORA does not engage in large fundraising within our community. We have never charged membership fees. The programs we have sponsored we have always provided either free as a community service or such a modest fee to cover per example a lunch or a snack. We have done this because we know how difficult their financial situation is for the individuals we serve.
We need to support WPI in their efforts and the support can come in many different ways, not just money. Obviously money is best. It would be the best way for them to fulfill their mission. A $10 donation a month to WPI multiplied by 100 donors is a $1,000 a month. If we have 1,000 patients doing the same is $10,000 a month. Could we keep up with this kind of donations efforts, in a year period, I bet you we could. Meaning that in 12 months we would have raised $120,000 for WPI. I can tell you that this type of effort would make Annette happy and would assist WPI in their mission. Even if we were to do $5 a month, it would then be half $5,000 totaling $60,000 a year.
I am sure there are many individuals already doing this and I am sure they are grateful for this support.
This is the kind of support that Patients can build up- One patient at a time.
I will clarify again that the word "punished" meant as an admonishment of the behavior of someone who is attacking another individual publicly through the internet or is posting misinformation or inaccuracies about another. If civility, courtesy and respect is not emphasized in our interaction. Then there is no boundaries and the conversation and the dialogue is broken.
Personal responsibility is important no question about it. I do understand the frustration that at times comes to the surface. It is not a good day. The illness gets in the way of seeing things clear. We all have those bad days and usually someone apologizes and the conversation is back in place. This is not what I am talking about.
I am talking about a deliberate approach to strike against others to the point that is harmful and bring emotional turmoil to all. This is why I asked that for every act as such let's respond with a act of kindness towards one another or of appreciation for organizations which are doing the best they can to help us.
I don't understand why MCClure was appointed to the NIH SEP either. I think the government eagerness to get this SEP going did not realize the depth of the situation. Another issue of the SEP which many in our community have not realized is that the SEP as it is, is not only for CFS, but also for FM and other chronic polysystemic disorders like TMJ, therefore there is why you see rheumatologists and dentists. My issue with dentists is that because dentists are not required to have dentistry school or CME training on CFS, they are not qualified to review CFS-ME papers and probably not FM either, even though there is an overlapping of TMJ in CFS and in FM.
Potential solution:
We need to ask for a SEP specifically for CFS-ME.
Current issues: It has been a setback because it will be a while before they can have another SEP in place and need to keep an eye on this too. Since the SEP reviewers are VOLUNTEERS, we might have a hard time finding another researcher to participate. Also, once a researcher participates in one SEP round, my understanding is that we have to wait an entire year to be able to recycle back. Many researcher within our community are overworked and overwhelmed already. I am praying that this gets fixed soon.
I would like to take this opportunity to address the issue below too:
"You should read both Heidi and Khaly's take on the matter of manufactured, inauthentic unity. Characterizing their views as
minutia displays short sightedness. Complaining about abusive, dissenting voices lacking credibility but refusing to engage with those who are civil and willing to be in dialogue with you is a mistake.[/QUOTE]"
We are/I am in fact cooperating with Heidi Bauer (she has signed off on the Petition letter to the CDC) and I have often included Khaly's on e-mails with topics/concern of the CDC and the NIH. So, it is important that you know this fact. In fact I have often promoted on Facebook Khaly's Craig List efforts and have great respect for both. They are amazing individuals. So I supposed in some level I need to walk way from all of this for a while, to be able to stay focused on working on fund-raising project for PANDORA,which is important too. Cooler head always prevail, don't you agree? Thank you for your time.
Marly
Time to Acknowledge Difference
First, Marly, I want to thank you for the things PANDORA under your leadership have accomplished. I know that you took an active advocacy role in the Ryan Baldwin case.
I don't think UNITY really is the issue here. My take on this is how does a community with very few financial resources and diverse views on our political situation create a coalition that can acknowledge differences in agenda and styles of expression. There is a need to support both research and advocacy, but how do you do this when so much of the patient population has been reduced to penury.
There is a very strong argument for a concentrated focus on funding the WPI, both as a clinical and research entity, as the strongest and quickest way to achieve legitimacy at this particular historical moment. Once legitimacy and innovative treatment protocols are realized then other initiatives can be advanced.
As for internet decorum, I agree that tone matters, but that is a matter of personal responsibility. Your desire to see speech "punished" is very problematic in my view. As obtuse, stupid, and sometimes, vicious, as some of the speech is, it's important to be mindful that its wellsprings are great sadness and frustration. This doesn't justify lashing out but evading difficult issues in the interests of being "nice" and reasonable isn't the answer either.
With the Lombardi paper this community found a voice that it had lacked for decades: it found hope. But it's an imperiled hope, confronting a great deal of resistance, and, frankly, in my view, bad faith amongst many scientists and government officials. How does a Myra McClure get appointed to a SEP committee on CFS?
What can patients do to cultivate that hope, sustain it through some bitter times, and not turn justified anger into self righteousness. My way is to support the WPI, because of my belief, that at least in the short term, this will see us through.
And one more thing:
You should read both Heidi and Khaly's take on the matter of manufactured, inauthentic unity. Characterizing their views as minutia displays short sightedness. Complaining about abusive, dissenting voices lacking credibility but refusing to engage with those who are civil and willing to be in dialogue with you is a mistake.