Stop with the childish " you're mean because I don't want to hear your point of view"
It was clear what Dr. LeGrice was doing at the science presentation today, which was to insinuate that what really needed to be done was to clean out those test tubes and get over XMRV.
Okay. Lone voice of dissent yet again. Patients are very invested in a very specific viewpoint and tend to filter everything that is said through their anger. It is a human thing.
It's not a bad thing unless it is not working for you.
The resulting distortions are the reason most researchers avoid patients as much as possible.
You want to be heard? Inform yourself. Stop blathering about conspiracies because no one is listening to "grassy knoll" theories. (I'm not saying there hasn't been an active campaign to squelch biomedical research among a small group of scientists, but no one wants to hear it.) Repetition of half truths isn't making people believe you. So stop trying to convince the world that patients really are crazy.
Most scientists, including Dr. Le Grice and Dr. Houghton, are merely expressing their point of view which because they are scientists is most likely much more informed than most patients.
Learn how science works. Learn that negative answers are just as informative as positive ones. They tell us that patient selections counts, that not all viruses are found in the blood, that disease stage matters etc. Even if XMRV flops the world and most specifically the world of researchers (other than the CDC) are hearing this. It applies to all ME/CFS research.
Don't pin all your hopes on XMRV, it may or may not be pathogenic even when present - that isn't a conspiracy that's science - which if patients were not so invested they would be able to understand. You can hope, but this is not do or die. More and more researchers are now interested and are tackling the problems patients and ME/CFS experts have known for years.
There are hundreds of thousands of viruses in the world and more yet to be discovered. This is a new field. Only a handful of those hundreds of thousands are pathogenic to humans. Some are only pathogenic in combination with toxins or other microbes.
If you want people to hear you listen to them. Dennis Manna from the NIH told you the truth - time taken to sort and answer repetitive uninformative emails takes away from more important work. Send one thoughtful and well informed message. Use accurate information not half baked theories.
Think about it as a parent if you are one. How do you feel about it when your kid pesters you half to death because they didn't like the first answer? Parents with no backbone give in, but good parents tell their child to stop bugging them or the answer is no and will stay no. It's a thought.
If you are furious about hearing a view point that you don't like, take a deep breath, and open your ears. Think it through. You may not change your mind and that is your right, but you may also lose some of the anger and learn something new or find a new way of thinking about this horrible mess.
This isn't everyone so if it's not you don't make it about you.