Thinking about it all further, I suppose I might be being a bit hypocritical here...
I stay away from all the negativity myself, because it bothers me, tremendously...
I really hate any personal attacks, and any spiteful and unreasonable negativity...
And I tend to challenge it whenever I see that sort of behaviour on the forums.
And because I avoid it, and don't generally see so much of the behaviour that is being discussed here, then I might not have the full picture, so I may well be down-playing the problem.
If this sort of patient behaviour really bothers people, then I suppose it is right that we have this discussion, and get it out into the open.
Patient 'advocates' should not be above criticism.
But it does really bother me when I see patients being 'blamed'... It really does...
When I see 'blame' being apportioned, then all I can see is an injustice, and that makes me react and defend patients.
Maybe I am being over-sensitive... I don't know.
I didn't have much sympathy for McClure because of the insensitive way she presented herself, and the way her study only took 4 weeks to categorically determine that XMRV does not exist (in collaboration with Wessely.)
But, yes, when the attacks are widespread, including attacks on Petterson, then I must agree that there is a problem.
There's two things I question though, for which i genuinely don't know the answer:
1. If we were all perfect patients, would the situation really be any better for us?
2. Does the bad behaviour of a few individuals really give the whole ME community a bad name?
Anyway, what we can all agree on is that we need to focus on what is constructive and productive for our community.