Thanks Nielk, Leela and Allie. I do feel some inner strength, in that my intuition is usually dead on target, but the illness can really mess with that, especially when my nervous system is off kilter, which is most of the time. The over-sensitivity of my nerves can often feel overwhelming and I end up feeling somewhat paralyzed by it... like my "antennas" are taking in WAY TOO MUCH information, and it's blowing out my circuits. I don't feel it in Nature, but when I am around people in a social situation, it becomes very apparent that I am too open to other people's energies.
I have tried putting a bubble around myself, and that works sometimes. The frankincense and myrrh sounds like a good idea too. I have noticed that those oils feel grounding to me. Tho looking back in retrospect, I think that not interacting at all with negative people, even if that means being cold and stand-offish, and leaving early might have been the best choice, which is what I would have done if I hadn't been dependent on my partner giving me a ride home.
I guess the best magic is being able to do what you need to do when you need to do it.