Hi all. I have a problem that i need your insights. At this time of my life, I am quite ill,living alone,mostly home bound,need support and affection.I expect my very few friends to visit me or call me without me asking them to do so.For example I had an operation about 5 months ago. One of my best friends visited me only once and second one twice. Other than that they tell me i should call them if i need anything. I am thinking that if they really cared about me they would call me or visit me and i really don't feel like calling them even if i need their help.TRying to solve my problems myself as much as i can. Question is: Am i making a mistake?Should i call them and ask for help even if they don't call me for weeks?I wonder if this is a call for me to learn asking for help. What do you think?