SnappingTurtle
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I read on https://howtogeton.wordpress.com/2017/03/09/how-to-avoid-scary-phone-calls/ that it is probably better if I avoid phone conversations with SSA.
A person from Disability Determination Services asked my husband to speak with me to "confirm information in my medical history", but I am wary that I will be asked many more questions that I am probably not equipped to answer on the fly. Should I stick to requesting all communications in writing?
For one thing, the last time I was 20 mins on the phone with the local SSA representative to confirm the details I provided in the online application, it took a lot out of me whilst I was already in a PEM crash. I am concerned that a long call being grilled, so to speak, will cause me to overexert and precipitate a crash. I probably should not be on here since posting tires me...
Secondly, the questions she hinted at asking me would have been addressed in the detailed Remarks I submitted in the online application and in the medical records and supporting evidence/letters of support from my doctors. So, it sounds fishy to me...I feel it is a ploy so that they could eventually ask me tricky Activities of Daily Living questions. I think mire clearly when I write, so talking on phone will place me at disadvantage. She made it seem that it is a bad thing that I could not talk on the phone.
I am not sure if it is a preliminary record gatherer or the actual disability examiner. She is in neighboring state.
What should I do? Am I being paranoid? The stress of having to go through another application and having to be on guard is starting to affect me.
I haven't had the energy to summarize my medical history yet and my hubby who could have assisted, has been overwhelmed with being primary caregiver, breadwinner and parent. This effort of applying will cost me. And yes, I am probably inflicting unnecessary pain since I don't want to hire an SSDI lawyer (yet).
A person from Disability Determination Services asked my husband to speak with me to "confirm information in my medical history", but I am wary that I will be asked many more questions that I am probably not equipped to answer on the fly. Should I stick to requesting all communications in writing?
For one thing, the last time I was 20 mins on the phone with the local SSA representative to confirm the details I provided in the online application, it took a lot out of me whilst I was already in a PEM crash. I am concerned that a long call being grilled, so to speak, will cause me to overexert and precipitate a crash. I probably should not be on here since posting tires me...
Secondly, the questions she hinted at asking me would have been addressed in the detailed Remarks I submitted in the online application and in the medical records and supporting evidence/letters of support from my doctors. So, it sounds fishy to me...I feel it is a ploy so that they could eventually ask me tricky Activities of Daily Living questions. I think mire clearly when I write, so talking on phone will place me at disadvantage. She made it seem that it is a bad thing that I could not talk on the phone.
I am not sure if it is a preliminary record gatherer or the actual disability examiner. She is in neighboring state.
What should I do? Am I being paranoid? The stress of having to go through another application and having to be on guard is starting to affect me.
I haven't had the energy to summarize my medical history yet and my hubby who could have assisted, has been overwhelmed with being primary caregiver, breadwinner and parent. This effort of applying will cost me. And yes, I am probably inflicting unnecessary pain since I don't want to hire an SSDI lawyer (yet).