LaurelB
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Hi all. Strange question, but I am just wondering if anyone here with ME has had quadruple bypass heart surgery or any kind of heart surgery (while they had ME)?
My fiance has severe ME (house and wheelchair bound) and recently suffered a heart attack that led to the discovery of several blocked arteries (all 90-100% blocked). He had to undergo quadruple bypass surgery last week. Thankfully, the surgery itself was successful, but it has caused his severe ME to worsen substantially to the point he has trouble lifting his arms/legs/head or turning in bed without assistance. He is now in a rehab nursing home, but they do not understand ME and are not letting him get the rest he needs. They keep trying to force PT on him and ask him to do things he can't, which he has had to refuse.
I'm trying to find any other ME patients who have gone through this surgery to find out how long it took to recover (no doubt longer than an otherwise healthy person). I also wonder if anyone has suggestions on how to get nursing home doctors/PTs to understand ME. His ME doctor called them to explain and he has also printed out articles, but it hasn't seemed to help.
I worry this will leave him in a permanently reduced state. I have severe ME myself (bedridden) and live 2,000+ miles away, so it's been quite difficult. Thanks for any input.
My fiance has severe ME (house and wheelchair bound) and recently suffered a heart attack that led to the discovery of several blocked arteries (all 90-100% blocked). He had to undergo quadruple bypass surgery last week. Thankfully, the surgery itself was successful, but it has caused his severe ME to worsen substantially to the point he has trouble lifting his arms/legs/head or turning in bed without assistance. He is now in a rehab nursing home, but they do not understand ME and are not letting him get the rest he needs. They keep trying to force PT on him and ask him to do things he can't, which he has had to refuse.
I'm trying to find any other ME patients who have gone through this surgery to find out how long it took to recover (no doubt longer than an otherwise healthy person). I also wonder if anyone has suggestions on how to get nursing home doctors/PTs to understand ME. His ME doctor called them to explain and he has also printed out articles, but it hasn't seemed to help.
I worry this will leave him in a permanently reduced state. I have severe ME myself (bedridden) and live 2,000+ miles away, so it's been quite difficult. Thanks for any input.
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