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Hi all,
In my often failed endeavors to not let this all completely destroy my life I often try to push myself to do things that at least give me some vague feeling of control and excitement even if those experiences are a struggle and more than marred.
It has always been my dream to move to Canada but unfortunately the process works like a raffle for a working visa and the application process is cut off at 31, is not yet open for this year and I turn 31 today so it was a no go.
I decided nonetheless to get a last minute working visa to New Zealand. I applied 2 days ago and if approved I could have the opportunity to work there for 2 years. Unfortunately I struggle a lot with work and have long periods of unemployment followed by various lengths of the least stressful temporary work I can find (I am currently working 2 minutes from my house) when money becomes a desperate situation.
Anyway, I may find myself in the possession of a 2 year visa in New Zealand where will have to (and want to) work and cope as best I can. I am still apprehensive and may not actually go but it is something I really want to try.
My main concern is treatment…Whilst I can probably say I have gotten nowhere with the doctors and alternative therapists I have seen in the last 11 years of being ill, I feel that being in the UK at least gives some options.
I have been for a consultation at the Breakspear Hospital and if I were somehow able to raise funds and go ahead with treatment there that would mean forgoing this potential experience.
I have put my life on hold for this for too long and have a stubborn notion that somehow I will be able to get something out of life before it’s too late!
I guess a big question and concern is what are the doctors, treatments and facilities like in N.Z.?
I would like to go and also continue to research and attempt things to make myself better.
Does anyone know how knowledgeable and advanced they are in their thinking towards our illnesses?
Many thanks
In my often failed endeavors to not let this all completely destroy my life I often try to push myself to do things that at least give me some vague feeling of control and excitement even if those experiences are a struggle and more than marred.
It has always been my dream to move to Canada but unfortunately the process works like a raffle for a working visa and the application process is cut off at 31, is not yet open for this year and I turn 31 today so it was a no go.
I decided nonetheless to get a last minute working visa to New Zealand. I applied 2 days ago and if approved I could have the opportunity to work there for 2 years. Unfortunately I struggle a lot with work and have long periods of unemployment followed by various lengths of the least stressful temporary work I can find (I am currently working 2 minutes from my house) when money becomes a desperate situation.
Anyway, I may find myself in the possession of a 2 year visa in New Zealand where will have to (and want to) work and cope as best I can. I am still apprehensive and may not actually go but it is something I really want to try.
My main concern is treatment…Whilst I can probably say I have gotten nowhere with the doctors and alternative therapists I have seen in the last 11 years of being ill, I feel that being in the UK at least gives some options.
I have been for a consultation at the Breakspear Hospital and if I were somehow able to raise funds and go ahead with treatment there that would mean forgoing this potential experience.
I have put my life on hold for this for too long and have a stubborn notion that somehow I will be able to get something out of life before it’s too late!
I guess a big question and concern is what are the doctors, treatments and facilities like in N.Z.?
I would like to go and also continue to research and attempt things to make myself better.
Does anyone know how knowledgeable and advanced they are in their thinking towards our illnesses?
Many thanks