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One of the problems we face is that we are making allegations based upon minimal evidence
If someone does something we do not like, often we attribute some nefarious purpose to it, based on prior history of that person. This may or may not be correct about a specific instance, but its hard for others to see that without being aware of the history, and lets face it, most are unware of the history.
Hi Vitalic, yes many of us do it (the blame game), though I try to keep it off the web. I suspect its for several reasons - because we are angry, we need to vent our emotions, or we are so deeply disturbed by how we are treated that we are looking for answers. I do think that ultimately certain people will have to accept some responsibility, but its a long road to get it to that point. Bye, Alex
PS The kind of response I am talking about can be found here:
http://niceguidelines.blogspot.com.au/2012/02/denial-to-point-of-being-delusional.html
This is the latest commentary by Margaret Williams. This is not an easy thing for most patients to write however. There are ways around this though, and at some point I may start a thread on how to do this and invite people who have written such articles to comment. I have seen this commentary elsewhere, but this is the easiest place to read it I have found so far due to how it is formatted.
That's a nice attitude to have, but it needs to be implemented in action to have any effect. It doesn't matter what people's attitudes are if they're just preaching to the choir on a message board. There are at least hundreds of thousands of us sick, along with healthy friends and family members that can organize and try to implement some action. It is clear we can't rely on the CAA to do this for us - no matter their reasons, the CAA has been ineffective at awareness and research, and so patients need to be a little more proactive. It's difficult, for sure, given our physical limitations, but it's clear no one else is going to get us out of this mess.
That's a nice attitude to have, but it needs to be implemented in action to have any effect. It doesn't matter what people's attitudes are if they're just preaching to the choir on a message board. There are at least hundreds of thousands of us sick, along with healthy friends and family members that can organize and try to implement some action. It is clear we can't rely on the CAA to do this for us - no matter their reasons, the CAA has been ineffective at awareness and research, and so patients need to be a little more proactive. It's difficult, for sure, given our physical limitations, but it's clear no one else is going to get us out of this mess.
Patients need to be ALOT more pro-active to get results. Honestly, at least in the US, we do very, very little...small demonstrations, temporary email campaigns, ad hoc assemblages of patients getting together a couple times a year. Its rough....whatever the CAA did they did spend the money to hire an expensive lobbyist to assist them at the federal level. They did notch a few wins...the CFSAC panel is still standing for instance....and they did get us into the Congressional Research for Defense funding but research spending remains about the same. Its not an easy situation.. .despite the 1,000's (hundreds of thousands?) of people with CFS within driving distance of Wash DC - they were never able to get more than about 50 people to attend Lobby Day to advocate for CFS up on the hill.....The CFSAC meetings are usually almost empty as well - we need to take responsibility for our inability to do what it takes to advocate effectively.
Hi Christopher, there are some number of us trying to act as fast and as hard as possible, given our limitations. We don't have large numbers, which has always been a major problem. We wont get the numbers either as long as the negative messages are so strong, and the positive messages so weak. If I can find the evidence I intend to file several complaints, but getting that evidence will take months to years. One person can only do so much. Others are working on analyzing the science. For those too sick to do much, if we can get some letters/petitions/complaints sorted out, based on hard evidence, then we can simply ask for everyone to sign it before we send it.
Mostly I see this falling to the less sick, only the problem is the less sick have retained more of a life so there is no guarantee that they will have any energy to spare. We are too sick and too demoralized for real advocacy, AIDS style or otherwise. We need to find a new path - not their style of advocacy, but our style of advocacy. If you think you can see a path that will work, do start a thread on it. We need all the ideas we can muster. Bye, Alex